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“Recently, my very well-loved Dyson V11 vacuum kicked the bucket. I’d already been eyeing a V12 Detect Slim, which is $250 off for Black Friday. The biggest game-changer with this model is that it reveals every microscopic piece of dust (and in my case, dog fur) on my floors with a beam of illumination. Plus, it’s Dyson’s most lightweight cordless vacuum, so I can do my entire apartment without fearing my arm falling off.” — Karina Hoshikawa, Senior Writer
“I’ve always been team #tinybag, but after seeing my colleague unpack the viral appeal of Coach’s Brooklyn bag (which you might have seen on the arm of several tastemakers about town), I’m thinking it might be time for me to upgrade to a roomier, perfectly slouchy design like this one. And if it's on sale (fingers crossed!), it’ll be a no-brainer.” — Karina Hoshikawa, Senior Writer
Coach Brooklyn Shoulder Bag 28, $, available at Coach
T3 Aire 360
"I've been on a journey to wear my hair down more — I'm a chronic slick-back bun girl, and I feel like I'm way past due for a change. I just went to get my yearly haircut, and my stylist Lorna recommended I give this type of styling tool a try because, for some reason, I just don't vibe with my naturally wavy hair. It's been so helpful to achieve a smooth blowout, and is super user-friendly.” — Kate Spencer, Senior Affiliate Partnerships Manager
"I recently went through all of my bedding and threw away every duvet cover that was stained and faded. I then treated myself to the luxe Signature Hemmed Duvet Set from Boll & Branch. I love that it has a hidden zipper closure at the end, plus it's made of 100% organic cotton that feels so smooth and luxe — if I close my eyes, I can imagine myself in a 5-star hotel bed. I’ll definitely be picking up another while it’s 25% off for Black Friday." — Kate Spencer, Senior Affiliate Partnerships Manager
Boll & Branch Signature Hemmed Duvet Set, $, available at Boll & Branch
Cozy Earth Bamboo Jogger
“I’m relatively new to this brand, but have become a swift convert. Cozy Earth’s Bamboo Jogger Set is the softest, coziest item I’ve put on my body. It’s all I’ve been wearing since receiving it, so I’m keen to buy myself a few more pairs for when the original is in the wash (a very sad day).” — Esther Newman, Affiliate Writer
Cozy Earth Bamboo Jogger Pant, $, available at Cozy Earth
Charlotte Tilbury Pillow Talk Luxury Palette
“Charlotte Tilbury usually offers fantastic deals for Black Friday. (Last year, the brand had a 20% to 30% discount, depending on order value.) This Thanksgiving, I’m setting an early alarm so that I can (hopefully) score a similar discount on my faves from the brand: Immediate Revival Under Eye Patches, which has been a total lifesaver for my under eye area this winter, and the Pillow Talk Luxury Palette, an important part of my everyday eye makeup look.” — Venus Wong, Senior Writer
Charlotte Tilbury Luxury Palette Pillow Talk, $, available at Charlotte Tilbury
Away The Bigger Carry On In Supernova Silver
“You might not believe it, but I’m still rocking a first-generation Away luggage in the year 2024. That’s how well they hold up. And while it’s still perfectly functional, I won’t lie: She’s been through a lot! I have my eye on the new cosmic collection, which features Away’s signature hard shell design but in sparkling silver or baby blue. Plus, at 20% off, it’s a great deal for a piece of luggage I plan to use for years to come.” — Karina Hoshikawa, Senior Writer
“I’m hoping Marshall holds its own Black Friday sale this year, but, if not, I’ll be heading to Amazon to upgrade my record player situation with a new speaker. My eye has been on the vintage-inspired Acton III in cream. (I recently switched to a white record player, so I want it to match.)” — Esther Newman, Affiliate Writer
Marshall Acton III Bluetooth Speaker, $, available at Amazon
IGK Good Behavior Prep Spray
“IGK has worked wonders for my hair — some of my faves are the Good Behavior Ultra Smooth Shampoo and the Good Behavior Prep Spray. This year, I’m going all in during the brand’s Black Friday sale. Since I use the products quite regularly, it’s great to get my go-to’s at 30% off.” — Becca Sax, Affiliate Coordinator
IGK Good Behavior 4 in 1 Prep Spray, $, available at IGK
Braun i·expert Smart IPL
“I used to only wax, but I’ve started shaving more frequently as I’ve grown lazier. I think it’s time to invest in myself and put all that money that I’ve saved into an IPL treatment device. I’m definitely considering this one while it’s on sale, as it’ll basically pay itself off in the time and money I’ll have saved on razors. I’ve heard the smart device is really good, and it’ll remind me when I need to do sessions, which is more than helpful for a planner like me who puts everything in their calendar.” — Becca Sax, Affiliate Coordinator
“I just finished my third bottle of Moroccanoil Treatment, and I’m eager to shop for my refill when the brand offers 25% off sitewide from November 25 to December 3. I’ve tried countless bottles of hair oil over the years, and none can compare to this classic argan oil-infused treatment, which nourishes and protects my hair from heat damage while adding a healthy shine. I’m also going to take this opportunity to stock up on the Intense Hydrating Mask, which is my go-to for when my hair is dry and tangly from too much traveling.” — Venus Wong, Senior Writer
Moroccanoil Treatment Original, $, available at Moroccanoil
30% off Carl Friedrik The Carry-on Pro
"As the resident luggage-tester on the Most Wanted shopping team, I’ve taken quite a number of suitcases out on a spin this year, but Carl Friedrik’s carry-on is still top of the class for me. The dark gray polycarbonate shell and Italian leather details are just so aesthetically pleasing — it is the go-to luggage in Succession, after all — and is sure to be a compliment magnet for anyone who receives this as a gift. The brand is offering 30% off sitewide (its only sale event of the whole year), and I will be using this opportunity to get my dad the super-suave Carry-On Pro, which comes with a front laptop sleeve." —Venus Wong, Senior Travel Writer
Carl Friedrik The Carry-on Pro, $, available at Carl Friedrik
Anthropologie Bistro Tile Margot Monogram Mug
"I’ve carted up a whopping six of these mugs to gift to several of my cousins. With Anthropologie’s Black Friday Sale, they each came to under $10, so they’re a real steal and will make the perfect gift on their own — or as a gift set with some lip glosses, a gift card, or whatever other mini goodies can fit inside." —Victoria Montalti, Affiliate Fashion Writer
Anthropologie Bistro Tile Margot Monogram Mug, $, available at Anthropologie
60% off Girlfriend Collective Thorn Please Recycle Backpack
"My mom and I took a hiking trip out west earlier this month, and she basically stole my Girlfriend Collective backpack for the whole week. I basically only wear GC workout gear, so its 30% off Black Friday sale is one I always use to pick up some bras and leggings, but I’ll definitely also add this backpack at 60% off as a thank you for the trip — and a reminder to bring her own next time." — Marshall Bright, Affiliate Editor
Girlfriend Collective Thorn Please Recycle Backpack, $, available at Girlfriend Collective
Skims Seamless Sculpt Bralette
"Guys, I did it: I found the perfect bralette for large-ish boobs, and have one Kimberly Noel Kardashian to thank. I already own a nude colorway of this shaping bralette, but will be buying at least two more while they’re on sale for Black Friday. They are supportive, smoothing, and truly invisible under clothing — all while not sacrificing comfort. Buy now, thank me later." —Karina Hoshikawa, Senior Writer
Skims Seamless Sculpt Bralette, $, available at Skims
Pact Fit & Flare One-Shoulder Midi Dress
"I already own the black version of this one-shoulder dress, and it has been a favorite for formal occasions where I want to look put-together but still be comfortable. Pact's organic cotton is famously soft and breathable, with the perfect amount of stretch that is extra accommodating to holiday feasting. I normally don’t even go for the one-shoulder silhouette, but this dress comes with a built-in shelf bra that eliminates the stress of finding a suitable undergarment. It’s as comfortable as wearing a T-shirt, but you’re dressed up enough for a black-tie event. I will be bagging up the green floral colorway (now 25% off) for a more festive look this time." —VenusWong, Senior Writer
PACT Fit & Flare One-Shoulder Midi Dress, $, available at PACT
Astrid & Miyu Molten Duo Huggies in Silver
"I wear gold huggie hoops every day, but I think this double wavy silver pair is such a fun mix-up. Also, the price point would make this a perfect gift for my two little sisters too!" — Kate Spencer, Senior Affiliate Strategist
Astrid and Miyu Molten Duo Huggies in Silver, $, available at Astrid and Miyu
Levi's Wedgie Icon Fit Jeans
"I own just one pair of Levi’s Wedgie jeans, and they’re easily among the top three most-loved pieces of denim in my closet. (I have somewhat of a jean-hoarding problem and probably own close to 20 pairs.) However, I can’t possibly say no to this 30%-off pair of Wedgies in the dreamiest light blue wash." — Karina Hoshikawa, Senior Writer
"Dainty, sparkly jewelry is my ultimate kryptonite — and no one does it better than Aurate. I already own several rings by the NYC-based brand and have been seriously impressed with the quality and design. (They’re total compliment magnets, FYI!) Since I have a total of 11 ear piercings, it’s high time that I added their signature white diamond studs to my stash." — Karina
Welcome toMoney Diarieswhere we are tackling the ever-present taboo that is money. We’re asking real people how they spend their hard-earned money during a seven-day period — and we’re tracking every last dollar.
Today: an art teacher who makes $53,501 per year and who spends some of her money this week on a mattress from Facebook Marketplace.
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Occupation: Art teacher Industry: Education Age: 23 Location: Hampton Roads, Virginia Salary: $53,501 Assets: I have $12,000 in savings in my bank account and around $6,000 in retirement savings that my company will match. Debt: I have $17,000 in student loans and $5,000 in loans for my car payment. Paycheck amount (once a month): $3,500 Pronouns: She/her
Monthly Expenses
Housing costs: Rent is $1,050, with water included. Loan payments: $185 car payment to grandparents; $0 student loan payment (this is due to the SAVE Program — because I teach at a Title 1 school, after 10 years of “payments,” my loans will be forgiven). Acorns: $25 (I use it as pet insurance). Car insurance: $215 Internet: $50.01 Electricity: $60-$100
Was there an expectation for you to attend higher education? Did you participate in any form of higher education? If yes, how did you pay for it? There was an underlying expectation for me to attend college because I was bright and did well in school. However, there were no real plans in place to get me there, and no financial support. Both of my parents have GEDs and only went to college later in life, so the guidance wasn’t there. My plans to secure financial support through scholarships based on my academic performance were wrecked when, in high school, I became disabled and my working memory deteriorated quickly. My As became Ds and it was difficult for me to focus. As a result, my schoolwork suffered greatly and I wasn’t sure if I would even make it through high school, let alone attend college. My grandparents offered to pay for my college if I went to a community college (they paid for the first year of it, then loans and scholarships paid for the other three). At 18, unsure of what else to do with my life, I enrolled, pretty sure I would fail. And I did fail the first six weeks. I was so ashamed of myself that I buckled down and put my all into passing. I was hesitant to apply for accommodations for my disability because I was afraid they wouldn’t help. But after receiving them, college became much easier and my Ds turned into As once again.
Growing up, what kind of conversations did you have about money? Did your parent(s)/guardian(s) educate you about finances? Growing up, we didn’t have many productive conversations about money. My parents never really educated me about finances, and I learned through observation. My dad made around six figures but it always felt like we never had enough. We were living paycheck to paycheck because he would waste his money on random things. At various points, he would buy $30,000 motorcycles and then, when he felt poor, he would sell them for around half the price. Toys, action figures, rare comics and other such nonsense were often bought right when the paycheck came in, but necessities and bills were treated as second priority. My dad would even ask me for money as a child to cover electric bills and other expenses.
What was your first job and why did you get it? I worked at Home Depot. I was living with my parents and we paid an equal amount of rent. I paid one third, my sister paid another third, and my parents covered the rest. All utilities and food costs were split evenly. I needed money to pay them so I applied to about 30 jobs and picked up the first one that would hire me.
Did you worry about money growing up? For me, having money was something that could never stick and was always going to be taken away. I always felt like we never had enough to cover the necessities and I worried when we would run out of essential items like food. It led to learning to live with less and make do with what we had.
Do you worry about money now? Yes and no. If I spend more than I expect on groceries or buy something for fun, I panic and feel very stressed about it. However, if I had to fix my car and it cost $3,000, I wouldn’t even blink. Money spent for fun or bills being higher than expected makes me worried, but emergencies and basic needs? That is what the hoards of money are for, so it doesn’t worry me too much.
At what age did you become financially responsible for yourself and do you have a financial safety net? I became responsible for myself the day I graduated high school. That was when I started paying my portion of the rent, being on the lease, covering utility bills, and paying taxes.
Do you or have you ever received passive or inherited income? If yes, please explain. No.
Day One: Monday
6:30 a.m. — I make coffee at home, adding chocolate protein powder to instant coffee (when I get to work, I’ll fill it up with water and have it for breakfast). I pack my lunch of an apple and string cheese.
6:45 a.m. — My car is hungry — it needs gas. I feed her. I think about how good 7-Eleven coffee is, but I have some, so I don’t buy any. $23.70
7 a.m. — I have metal detector duty at school this morning, where I search the students to make sure they don’t have weapons. Today I’m overwhelmed by the number of kids and it drags on longer than it was supposed to. I head to my planning period late and have a coffee with protein powder and one more coffee for good luck.
11:45 a.m. — I eat my standard lunch: an apple and light string cheese. I chat with my coworker about a new art project that we have started with the students, focusing on the Broobs style of portraiture. They keep calling it “boobs style” but since they are learning and it makes them more engaged, I allow it. The work is turning out well! My coworker gives me an expired yogurt — I eat it because I’m pretty sure it’s fine.
4:30 p.m. — My grandfather is in town! He’s a maybird who goes to Florida during the colder months and Virginia during the hotter ones. I invite him to a coffee shop where the barista is mean but the coffee is good enough to make up for it. We talk for two or three hours about life and learning Spanish (he’s doing much better than me). He insists on paying but I pay instead and tell him he can just pay me back when he remembers, knowing he won’t remember. He agrees, falling into my evil scheme. I pick at a muffin and have a large latte. $9.65
6 p.m. — By the time I get home I am beat — the only thing on my mind is resting.
6:30 p.m. — I online shop with friends and live vicariously through them. I haven’t bought new clothes in…I’m not even sure. I help my friend pick out a beautiful rainbow tulle skirt. I’ve got my eye on a pair of red overalls, praying to the thrift gods that one day they’ll come to me. I have cottage cheese and pretzels for dinner and head to bed.
Daily Total: $33.35
Day Two: Tuesday
5:30 a.m. — I tell my cat how much I love her. Every day I wake up with her on my chest. I feel loved. I adopted her last week after wanting a cat for over a year but not feeling ready. When I went to the shelter last week, this one sat on my shoulders and refused to get off. It was impossible not to take her home.
6:35 a.m. — I shove some eyeliner on in the car. I try to wear makeup every day but it usually never gets fully done. Today it’s Wet n Wild eyeliner and whatever glittery white product I can get a lot of for my inner corners — today’s pick is the Epic Wear Waterproof Eyeliner Stick from NYX.
6:50 a.m. — I watch the kids get searched in line. One girl keeps beeping and it turns out she has four energy drinks. Well, at least she is prepared for school today!
12:45 p.m. — My photo lesson totally bombs. None of the kids grasps the content, and I feel terrible about it. We will revisit it next class but I’m glad they try hard, even if they’re unsuccessful. I eat my lunch alone — an apple and a cheese stick.
2:30 p.m. — “I FOUND A SOLID WOOD CHERRY BED FOR FREE!” is the text I send my partner, H., as soon as I see it on Facebook Marketplace. I had been hoping to find one, but for free? I’ve never been so excited in my life. H. is excited too, as I currently sleep in a full-size bed and with him being so tall, he doesn’t quite fit. I ask to borrow his truck so I can take it home and he says yes! I thank the seller profusely for letting me have it and can’t stop thinking about how happy I am.
3:30 p.m. — H. and I pick up the bed together. I ask him to stay for dinner and he agrees.
5 p.m. — The beautiful bed is perfect in every way, except it doesn’t come with bed slats. I head over to Lowe’s with H. to make some. I could buy them new but it’s over $100, which is a little outside my price range. I buy 1x4x14 furring boards and have them cut to 5ft each. The worker does a terrible job and they’re all slightly different lengths, but I decide not to say anything. It comes to about $35 — I feel a little bad about spending that much but I spent about 40 minutes trying to come up with something cheaper, and I couldn’t. I still think there’s something I could’ve done for less, but I try to put it out of my head and remind myself it’s still a deal as it is. I take some paint swatches and sticks for work. I am unsure what I will do with them but I’ll figure it out. $35.27
6:30 p.m. — My love and I spend some time doing a crossword together while snuggling with the cat. He loves the cat and is now her father.
7 p.m. — We drink some Coca-Cola with peach schnapps that was on sale.
8:30 p.m. — After H. leaves, I message people online about buying a mattress. Buying one on Amazon is about $250, which is my backup plan, but I would like to stay under that. I don’t mind buying a used mattress (my last one was used) but everyone in my life would kill me if I did that, so I try to find some sort of sale. I always check out Facebook Marketplace. Two people are selling unused mattresses still in their original packaging, both for $50. One is much nicer than the other but I message both. I also check a few online stores to see if I can stack coupons to make an amazing deal — big fat nope. All of them are set up so that people like me can’t stack coupons. I can’t find a new mattress that’s not on Facebook for under $250, so I hope the Facebook options pan out.
Daily Total: $35.27
Day Three: Wednesday
6:30 a.m. — I get a free coffee from Panera. During the summer, they gave away a free three-month membership to their Sip Club and I am still using it. I can get a free drink every two hours. I have a very pleasant and productive morning making four different lesson plans and finishing all my grading.
6:40 a.m. — With coffee in hand, I watch the parents queue up for drop-off from my car, feeling ready to start the day.
12 p.m. — I show my students pictures of my new cat and tell them they’ll earn extra credit if they send me photos of their pets. I’m greedy and keep all the pet photos for myself!
12:30 p.m. — I am extra hungry today after just having an apple and string cheese so I have a can of sardines, too. People give them a lot of hate, but what they don’t understand is that they are delicious and I love them — plus: cheap! I eat alone today, feeling overstimulated from all the noise.
2:30 p.m. — When I adopted my cat last week (with an $80 adoption fee), she came with everything she could possibly need and then some (two litter boxes, two cat posts, so many toys I can’t keep track), so I didn’t find myself needing anything. But free is free so I go to pick up the extra items I get free with a coupon: a litter box and scoop, 10 containers of wet cat food, four pounds of dry cat food, and some cat treats. She will be eating well tonight! I add it to her hoard.
3 p.m. — My mom invites me to the Goodwill bins, where we bond over rummaging through giant blue tubs filled with who knows what. They’re vaguely sorted into clothes and non-clothes, and everything is charged by the pound, so you can score some great deals! I leave with a 10-inch Christmas tree, a cute lace tree skirt, a Halloween garland, and Valentine’s Day garlands that I snag quickly since Valentine’s Day is my favorite holiday. At checkout I consider putting back the Halloween garland because it seems frivolous but I’m too embarrassed so I buy it. Once in the car, I’m glad I kept it — the little skeletons are adorable. $2.71
6 p.m. — I am locked in for the good Facebook mattress! I have messaged the seller and I am picking it up during my lunch break. It is a 12-inch mattress, better than the one I have been sleeping on for years, and also a queen size, which I need for the FREE CHERRY BED I got. Still excited over that.
6:30 p.m. — I’m so sleepy and just want to take a nap. I haven’t eaten a lot, so that might be the cause. I throw some canned herring on top of some rice and toss it in the microwave. I also add some cauliflower to the air fryer. Top with hot sauce and bon appétit!
7:30 p.m. — Snack time: I have some chips and cottage cheese. I don’t want to dirty a plate so I eat both straight out of the container.
Daily Total: $2.71
Day Four: Thursday
6:40 a.m. — I watch the children line up from inside with five minutes to go before work starts. I consider putting on makeup but decide against it because I don’t want to draw attention today. Feeling grubby and unprepared for the day ahead; I can’t understand what changed from yesterday, which was so good. I forget to unlock the door of my classroom before opening it and slam my face into it. OW!
7 a.m. — Time for breakfast: coffee with protein powder.
7:15 a.m. — Drinking my coffee and calling my sister has become a ritual on bad mornings. We both wake up around the same time for work (her job is low stress and work from home). I have trouble focusing today and can’t manage to get anything done during my planning period. My sister and I chat about DC Comics and the new Batman show. Nothing gets done.
10:30 a.m. — I am having a slight amnesic episode but I hide it. We’re working on a longer project so they should know what they are doing, and I keep the lesson plan close by so I can reflect back. I keep forgetting what project we are on and what they should be working on. I can’t stop blinking, and it’s so annoying. One kid walks up to me and I have no idea who he is but I know the answer to his question, so I give him the information and just call him “dude.” Extremely dizzy, I eat my apple early and save my string cheese for lunch.
12 p.m. — I pick up the mattress on my lunch break — it fits in my car, yes! I see a dead beetle and try not to think about it too hard. $50
3:30 p.m. — I lay on the bed with my cat until Dungeons and Dragons starts. I feel guilty for being unproductive but I can’t manage to get anything more out of myself. The cat lays on my chest and it seems to be a sign to relax a little. I watch YouTube videos about cat care and pet her.
4 p.m. — I put together my bed, complete with free bed frame, bed slats, and mattress. My old sheets and comforter will work with the new bed even though one is queen size and the other is full. I was planning to sell my old bed and mattress but when I was taking them apart, the metal frame of the bed collapsed. The metal screws fell out and the frame warped in such a way that it couldn’t be put back together. I’m glad I replaced it when I did!
5 p.m. — It’s time for the weekly DnD night. I play with some friends who were initially coworkers but no longer work at the same place as me. I play a hyper-religious grandma who is obsessed with converting people to her religion. It may be a cult, but she doesn’t think so! I eat pulled pork and coleslaw while we start the game.
9 p.m. — I head straight home after Dungeons and Dragons. I call H. on the drive home and tell him everything I did and we cover our days. We keep the call going until I fall asleep.
Daily Total: $50
Day Five: Friday
6:30 a.m. — It’s pep rally day so we have free coffee and bagels at work! During last year’s pep rally, things went haywire and the police were called — it was a huge mess. So this year they have placated the teachers with bagels as an apology for making us do this again. I sneak a bagel with walnut cream cheese and a large coffee. We’re all on edge but hoping for a safe pep rally day.
12:30 p.m. — Someone grabs me a leftover bagel for lunch because I mentioned the walnut cream cheese. Yum.
1:30 p.m. — I feel stressed about the pep rally until I find out I’m assigned to be in the library with the children who don’t want to go to the rally. It’s much safer and less likely to have a mob fight in there. I play Jenga with one of my students (I lose).
2:30 p.m. — I head over to my sister’s house because she is making food and it’s Fri-YAY! She has a VR Oculus headset that I try out. I play Beat Saber and do very poorly, with only 30% accuracy. I eat homemade pumpkin loaf as a reward for my failure.
4:30 p.m. — I eat chicken chili that my sister made while we chat. We watch an episode of Batman: The Caped Crusader and discuss how the new Harley Quinn turned out.
5 p.m. — I pick up groceries from Aldi — just some pantry essentials like pretzels, cottage cheese, and canned fish. I buy almost all of my meat in bulk, cook it, and freeze it, so I limit the amount of raw meat I touch. I also keep rice mass-cooked and frozen in pre-packaged one-cup portions. It’s like a half meal prep. Since I don’t need to buy any meat or cheese this week, it’s a rather cheap grocery run. $31.69
6:30 p.m. — When I get home, I realize I’ve been on edge all day — everyone at my school was. I decide it’s time to stress clean. I vacuum my entire apartment and scrub the bathtub. The laundry is folded and my place looks like a whole new house by the end of it. I also put up the Halloween garland I bought from Goodwill, complete with little skeletons.
Daily Total: $31.69
Day Six: Saturday
5:30 a.m. — It’s the weekend and the cat is on top of my chest, so I go back to sleep.
8:30 a.m. — H. is coming over to spend the day with me. I prepare breakfast for us: I try to “faux boil” eggs in the air fryer but the results are disappointing. Some are overcooked and others are still raw. To go with the sad eggs, I pair pretzels, apples, some cheese, and peanut butter for him, making a Lunchables version of a charcuterie board. Even though the eggs are a fail, H. tells me he likes it.
9 a.m. — After breakfast we have to get oil for my car — H. is a mechanic by trade so while I can change my oil, I prefer he does it. I pick up some oil and a filter — he offered to pay but I got my card in before him. It feels rude to have him pay for it when he’s already changing the oil for free. We like looking at the car knick-knacks, and a pair of fuzzy dice catches my eye. I add it to my thrift store manifestation list in my head. $14.08
9:30 a.m. — H. changes the oil while I hang out with him and we talk about what movie we want to watch when we get inside. I’m team cheesy Halloween movie, while he wants something with childhood nostalgia attached. We brainstorm ideas as I clean out all the trash and clutter from my car.
10 a.m. — We get distracted from the movie-watching quest and start moving the furniture to make the new bed look nicer. We position it by the windows so the sun can wake me up in the morning.
10:50 a.m. — H. and I settle on watching The Nightmare Before Christmas. We stop after the second song to see how they made the claymation and end up watching a video on Coraline. We continue the movie and oh man, Danny Elfman plays Jack Skellington! I didn’t know he acted! It becomes a new rabbit hole and it takes a long time to get through the movie.
1 p.m. — H. fell asleep sometime during the movie. I play Duolingo. I will never buy premium — you can take my money out of my cold, dead hands, you evil birds! The bird rewards me, and I am number one in my league. After my victory, I sketch H. while he sleeps.
4:30 p.m. — I start making a version of tteokbokki (Korean rice cakes). They are these soft, mochi-like noodles in a hot pepper sauce. We used to make them more authentically but I have been trying to eat healthy so we add ground turkey meatballs for protein, spinach, whole peppers, and a LOT of cabbage. H. and I love cooking together. I like to fry the pepper paste (gochujang) in a pan with a little bit of oil first. I don’t know if it does anything but my mom does that with tomato paste so same concept maybe?
5:30 p.m. — I feed the cat some extra fancy cat food (I add some saved sardine broth to it) while we set the table. I live in a small one-bedroom so there isn’t really a dining table, more like a coffee table pretending to be one. We set up glass plates, bowls, candles, a pitcher of water, and some sides like pickled onions (mostly for me) and cucumber salad. It looks so fancy. We eat undisturbed and just talk with no distractions — it’s peaceful.
7 p.m. — H. leaves for work and I have no interest in going outside today or putting on real clothes. I take out my yoga mat and do some stretches from a YouTube video to help digest a big meal. I used to do a lot more when I was off during the summer but during the school year I’m less consistent in keeping up with daily exercise.
8:45 p.m. — I’m on that teacher sleep schedule where I wake up and go to bed way too early. I used to stay up until 2 a.m. or 3 a.m. and be fine, but now I’m sleepy by 9 p.m. I’ve officially become old.
Daily Total: $14.08
Day Seven: Sunday
5:30 a.m. — I am mad I woke up before the sun is up. I refuse to get out of bed; I try to go back to sleep but can’t so I settle for playing all of the free New York Times games. I love Connections and Strands and play them most days.
9 a.m. — I text my sister to see if, after therapy, she would like to go to an art fair with me, and she is 100% on board. We both love art, especially local art. I’m thinking of spending money there if they have any sun catchers at a good price — I’m a sucker for them! We also make a plan to visit my grandparents since they are in the area. I go to therapy every other week to help with my disability. I have significant memory issues that worsen when I’m too stressed or anxious. Therapy helps me manage the symptoms. In my mind it’s a necessity so I don’t worry about the price, especially since insurance covers a lot of it.
11:30 a.m. — I make a fancy coffee for therapy, adding vanilla and almond extract. My therapist and I video chat from home so I tidy everything up. I also do the dishes because, hey, why not? I light some incense and look through my week to see what I want to discuss in the session.
12 p.m. — It’s therapy time. I’ve always thought it’s weird that she only does Sundays, but whatever. We chat about my new cat and other more boring things. $36.05
2 p.m. — I drive up to pick up my sister. We are going to the art fair but beforehand we visit my grandparents. We have a good talk and enjoy sourdough bread sandwiches. I share about my life, and we chat about my cat.
4 p.m. — We go to the art fair and it’s a lot different than I expected. I thought it would be like a “Hey, I’m selling my crocheted items or homemade candles for like 10 bucks”, but it’s working famous artists selling their work for upwards of $40,000. The cheapest item is a print for $50. I buy nothing. We enjoy looking at the art and treat it like a museum instead of a market. I feel very poor the entire time.
5 p.m. — My sister and I stop by the library at my grandparents’ house before heading home. They have a book nook where they sell books for under a dollar. I don’t get anything — maybe I’m still in museum mode after the fair — but I always enjoy looking. My sister picks up an art print for a dollar.
6 p.m. — Finally home, I have dinner: some tofu, cabbage, tomatoes, and rice with a lot of spices to make it taste decent. It reminds me of cabbage rolls.
8 p.m. — I watch YouTube videos until I fall asleep; video essays are my favorite.
Daily Total: $36.05
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When the weather starts to cool down, all we want to do is curl up in bed for a cozy night in. (Outside? Not for us.) But as we snuggle under our covers, we’re reminded that we probably should get around to refreshing the contents of our linen closets before the new year. That entails joining the sales-thirsty masses during Black Friday to hop on some of the best bedding deals on everything from sheet sets and comforters to pillows and weighted blankets (even ultra-plush robes and mattresses).
If you’d rather spend your time doing anything other than mindlessly scrolling too-large-to-process sales sections, you’ve come to the right page: We’ve scoured all the best retailers (including Boll & Branch, Tuft & Needle, Buffy, and Brooklinen) to bring you the best of the Black Friday bedding deals. We even went the extra mile and picked our top three sale items from each, so you don’t have to break a sweat and rest easier on your discounted spoils, which could include anything from free pillows with purchases to codes that will save you hundreds of dollars on that best-selling sheet set you’ve been eyeing.
Keep reading to peep our running list of the best bedding discounts, and be sure to check back for more plush-and-cozy promos as they become available.
The highly-anticipated Brooklinen Black Friday sale is offering 25% off sitewide — no promo code needed. Don’t forget to browse the bundles, which have been discounted up to 50% off.
Take 25% off sitewide — or more on select items — on Buffy this Black Friday. Yes, that includes everything from colorful sheet sets to weighted blankets to cozy comforters.
As much as we love playing dress-up, diving headfirst into the latest fashion trends, there’s no denying the magnetic pull of a matching sweatsuit or lounge set. They’re cozy, they’re comfy, they’re cute — and when made with quality and care, they’re built to last. Plus, let’s talk versatility. Toeing the line between sporty athleisure and polished co-ords, sweatsuits are the ultimate shortcut to looking casual yet put-together.
Throw one on when you can't be bothered to style an outfit. Or default to your favorite when tackling a week’s worth of chores in a few hours. Working remotely and need to feel slightly more “dressed” than your pajamas? Problem solved. And ontravel days? Sweat sets are an MVP for curling up on chilly flights. Bonus: you can break up a set and wear each piece separately, unlocking endless mix-and-match potential for those moments when you actually want to plan an outfit.
If you’re ready to retire those ratty, holey sweats that have seen you through college and countless days under your duvet (no judgment — we’ve all got that pair), consider yourself covered. Ahead, discover 20 top-quality, stylish sweatsuit sets from retailers we love and trust. Whether you’re looking for lightweight short sets and breathable cotton co-ords for warm weather or weighty and more structured layers for winter hibernation mode you’ll find your new go-to right here.
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Paige Lorenze's cozy streetwear brand has us dreaming of New England summers with this cherry-stitched set. Even if it’s below 40 degrees, you can channel beach vibes from the comfort of your couch.
Dairy Boy Cherry Stitch Shorts, $, available at Dairy Boy
Dairy Boy Cherry Stitch Pullover, $, available at Dairy Boy
Vuori's lounge-meets-activewear options are made from the softest DreamKnitfabric (a brand signature). With a relaxed fit, moisture-wicking properties, and four-way stretch, they do the most (in a chill sort of way).
Vuori Granite Performance Jogger, $, available at Vuori
We’re long-time fans of Free People’s lounge and activewear offerings (especially FP Movement and Free-est) and this lightweight knit set is a standout. Available in 10 colors, from easy neutrals to super-saturated shades, it’s perfect for everything from summer heatwaves to snuggly winter days spent under a blanket.
free-est Malibu Solid Pant Surf Set, $, available at Free People
Spanx isn't just about shapewear anymore — case in point: this delicious chocolate brown jumpsuit. While technically not a two-piece set, its stretchy Tencel fabric makes it a dream for curling up with a good book.
SPANX AirEssentials Long Sleeve Wide Leg Jumpsuit, $, available at SPANX
Sweatsuits might not be the first thing you think of when it comes to Skims, better known for its skin-tight bodywear. But we give these coordinates top honors for their simple design and oh-so-loungeable feel.
Skims Cotton Fleece Classic Straight Leg Pant, $, available at Skims
Skims Cotton Fleece Classic Zip-Up Hoodie, $, available at Skims
Anthropologie's label Daily Practice delivers casual loungewear with an elevated, everyday feel. This light-gray set caught our eye, especially for the voluminous joggers offering a bolder fit.
Daily Practice by Anthropologie Zola Joggers, $, available at Anthropologie
Daily Practice by Anthropologie Hoodie, $, available at Anthropologie
You've probably spotted these stripes before, and there's a good reason. Aviator Nation's signature single-needle stitch and breaking-down process gives their loungewear that perfect lived-in feel from the first moment you slip them on.
Aviator Nation 5 Stripe Sweatpants, $, available at Aviator Nation
Aviator Nation 5 Stripe Hoodie, $, available at Aviator Nation
A loungewear skirt? Believe it, babe. It’s a super-polished take on loungewear that you can totally dress up with loafers and a slouchy jacket. The fabric is so silky soft but thicker, so it’s never see-through.
Bleusalt The Long A-Line Skirt, $, available at Bleusalt
Bleusalt The Oversized T-Shirt, $, available at Bleusalt
True to its name, the Relax Pants Set is perfect for some much-needed R&R. And even if you can’t take a break, the dreamy fabric will put you in a more tranquil state of mind at the very least.
LAKE Pajamas Relax Pants Set, $, available at LAKE Pajamas
We love Nest Designs' eco-friendly fabrics, which are sustainably sourced. It's a good-for-the-planet flex that’s super soft — a peak opportunity for maximum chill.
Nest Designs Tanboocel Basics Ribknit Wide Leg Pants, $, available at Nest Designs
Nest Designs Bamboo Cotton Basics Ribknit Long Sleeve Henley, $, available at Nest Designs
Of course, everyone's favorite shop for wardrobe basics has hoodies that "hoodie" better than most in existence. The Cozy Fleece fabric is like wearing a cloud while the oversized fit will keep you snug as a bug all season long.
Aritzia Cozy Fleece Mega Raglan Hoodie, $, available at Aritzia
Aritzia Sweatfleece Cozy Fleece Mega Cargo Sweatpant, $, available at Aritzia
For those who tend to run warm, this three-piece cardigan sweater set is the solution. Adorable for days with a slight chill in the air, it comes in lots of cute neutrals and an extensive size range from 2-24.
Everyone loves Abercrombie’s jeans, but the activewear and loungewear deserve a shoutout. Made from neoKNIT — a special material made from layers of sweat-wicking neoprene — they’re thick but soft and just the thing for your next hot girl walk (especially with the matching sweatshirt, not pictured here).
Abercrombie & Fitch YPB neoKNIT Sweatpant, $, available at Abercrombie & Fitch
Abercrombie & Fitch YPB neoKNIT Polo Sweatshirt, $, available at Abercrombie & Fitch
Girlfriend Collective’s inclusive sizing (XXS to 6XL) and eco-friendly fabrics (made with 71% recycled plastic bottles) are the top two reasons we love the brand. While we stan the activewear offerings, the loungewear has soared to the top of our most-wanted list, including this sweatsuit that’s not too heavy nor too light — it’s just right.
Girlfriend Collective Sargasso Lucy Sweat Short, $, available at Girlfriend Collective
Girlfriend Collective Sargasso Vega Half-Zip Sweatshirt, $, available at Girlfriend Collective
Pact has long been a favorite for organic closet essentials. The brand’s new selection of velour loungewear has us all in on the plush fabric for a fancier feel when our cotton sets feel played out.
Alo is best for its fashion-forward range of yoga attire and workout sets, but the sweatsuits are equally on point. Our Fashion Director, Irina Grechko, swears by this heather gray set for peak cozy vibes.
Alo Yoga Accolade Crew Neck Pullover, $, available at Alo Yoga
Alo Yoga Accolade Straight Leg Sweatpant, $, available at Alo Yoga
Made with 100% GOTS-certified organic cotton, Mate The Label’s sweats are eco-friendly without sacrificing style. Plus, their organic cotton uses less water and carbon emissions — snaps for sustainable efforts.
Mate The Label Organic Fleece Oversized Sweatshirt, $, available at Mate the Label
Mate The Label Organic Fleece Relaxed Pocket Sweatpant, $, available at Mate the Label
Jenni Kayne — a.k.a., everyone's favorite luxury knitwear designer — brings the same softness to the label’s matching sweat sets. This one is the definition of low-key luxury.
Jenni Kayne Marina Sweatpant, $, available at Jenni Kayne
Jenni Kayne Marina Sweatshirt, $, available at Jenni Kayne
Italic’s 100% cashmere lounge set offers affordable luxury by cutting out the middleman. Think designer quality, minus the markup. You can score this luxe set for less than $250.
Italic Cashmere Lounge Set, $, available at Italic
Summersalt is best known for its swimwear, but its loungewear offerings are just as noteworthy. This cashmere-blend set is a cozy queen’s dream — elevated, plush, and not too hard on the wallet.
Summersalt The Softest French Terry Boatneck Pullover, $, available at Summersalt
Summersalt The Softest French Terry Tie-Waist Pant, $, available at Summersalt
Pangaia brings bold colors and sustainable materials to your downtime style. If you’re a color lover, this set is a so-fun and eco-friendly take on loungewear.
Pangaia 365 Midweight Hoodie - Jade Green, $, available at Pangaia
Pangaia 365 Midweight Track Pants - Jade Green, $, available at Pangaia
GAP makes some of the best athleisure staples (after all, they’re best known for their iconic GAP logo hoodies). This two-piece is our favorite for its loose, oversized fit and the slight crop of the hoodie (which hits the waistband of your jeans perfectly, if worn separately).
Let's bring it back to the original grey sweatsuit set, but a little different. Aerie's version includes a quarter zip and shorts that are perfect for that transitional weather between seasons.
Aerie Sun's Out High Waisted Short, $, available at Aerie
Aerie Sun's Out Quarter Zip Sweatshirt, $, available at Aerie
Part of the Haven Well Within collection Ann Taylor stocks, this snuggly sweat set is made with wool and recycled nylon —meaning it’s perfect as we head into the cozy season. A fall sleep and lounge must!
Ann Taylor Haven Well Within Boucle Midi Flare, $, available at Ann Taylor
Ann Taylor Haven Well Within Boucle Pocket Hoodie, $, available at Ann Taylor
For super soft size-inclusive active and loungewear, Madewell is always top of our lists. Its size range extends to 4X and a vast majority of the range is created with recycled polyester made from waste plastic bottles.
Madewell Plus MWL Superbrushed Easygoing Sweatshirt, $, available at Madewell
Madewell Plus Superbrushed Easygoing Sweatpants, $, available at Madewell
Cozy Earth is already on our list of top sustainable bedding retailers, but along with their sheet sets and duvet covers, they also produce super-soft, temperature-regulated sleepwear that is certified chemical-free, using Oeko-Tex-certified materials (linen and organic bamboo free of toxic dyes and other chemicals).
Cozy Earth Bamboo Shorts, $, available at Cozy Earth
Cozy Earth Bamboo Long Sleeve Polo, $, available at Cozy Earth
These are the perfect weight for summer chillouts and have a relaxed, elegant feel thanks to the slim-fit, tapered cut of the sweatpants. As DONNI’s own styling proves, they’re easy to dress up with a button down shirt, but for a matching look try their Eco-Terry Crewneck.
Donni The Eco-Terry Sweatpants, $, available at Donni
Donni The Eco-Terry Crewneck, $, available at Donni
Best known for its swimwear, Summersalt should also be on your list for loungewear. This matching set is just as comfy, but elevates the typical sweatsuit.
Summersalt The Softest French Terry Boatneck Pullover, $, available at Summersalt
Summersalt The Softest French Terry Tie-Waist Pant, $, available at Summersalt
Subtle but effective, the cropped, cinched waist on this hoodie instantly elevates your sweatsuit game. Paired with matching cloud blue shorts and you’re set for running errands, a brunch catchup or a surprise, mid-afternoon nap.
Good American Cropped Cotton Hoodie, $, available at Good American
Good American Sweatpant Shorts, $, available at Good American
Anthropologie's brand Daily Practice offers casual loungewear that's incredibly chic and perfect for everyday wear. We have our eyes on this set in a beautiful turquoise green
(that’s on sale for a limited time!) — especially for the tapered cut of the sweats, which offer a sleeker fit (the matching sweatshirt is not pictured here).
Daily Practice by Anthropologie The Zola Joggers, $, available at Anthropologie
Daily Practice by Anthropologie Horseshoe Sweatshirt, $, available at Anthropologie
Quince is one of our favorite online retailers for high-quality basics at wallet-friendly prices, and it makes a curated selection of loungewear staples worth your hard-earned cash.
Quince SuperSoft Fleece Cropped Wide Leg Pants, $, available at Quince
Quince SuperSoft Fleece Crew, $, available at Quince
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