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The leaves are turning, the nights are getting cooler, and our favorite retailers are dropping the coziest and chicest collections to match the seasonal vibe.

Refinery29 reader-favorite brand Abercrombie & Fitch is consistently updating its fall offerings, dropping new items every Thursday. After scouring the brand’s autumn collection and various sub-lines (like the office-approved edit and party shop), we found the trendiest statement pieces, most classic wardrobe staples, and easiest matching sets perfect for the office, as well as cozy cardigans for casual fall activities, holiday-ready party dresses, and on-trend jeans for everything in between.

To help inspire and build your cool-weather outfits for all the fall activities you have in store, we’ve compiled the best of Abercrombie & Fitch’s new arrivals, from best-sellers in updated fabrics to of-the-moment styles. Go on and get your pre-Black Friday shopping done now, and thank us later.

Abercrombie & Fitch Fall Office Styles

Whether you’re looking to refresh your office wardrobe with new work pants, no-fuss matching sets, or a double-breasted dress coat, Abercrombie & Fitch has separates ready to be styled, as well as work-appropriate dresses and jumpsuits in sleek neutrals or olive green, which can effortlessly transition from day to night.

Abercrombie & Fitch Fall Party Styles

The brand’s party edit will get you on the best-dressed list for all your upcoming holiday festivities, starting as soon as Thanksgiving all the way through winter wedding season. Dazzle all night long in embellished satin dresses, sequined mini skirts, sparkling bodysuits, faux fur coats, and more. 

Abercrombie & Fitch Fall Activity Styles

Round out your fall wardrobe with casual styles that can be worn to lounge around the house, go apple picking, or cheer on your favorite football team — think suede jackets, wool mini skirts, and trendy leopard print bodysuits. Abercrombie & Fitch’s famous jeans in autumn-ready washes should also be on your radar.

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Dyson has become so well-known as a beauty power player that it’s easy to forget that the brand had relatively humble origins in the vacuum cleaner space. That all changed in 2016, when the Dyson Supersonic launched, and hair tools haven’t been the same since. Eight years (and three more devices later), Dyson is taking another big step in its beauty journey with an inaugural range of styling products.

The Dyson Chitosan range (named after the hero ingredient, chitosan, a molecule derived from oyster mushrooms) features four variations of a pre-styling hair cream (tailored to different hair types and textures) and a post-styling serum to offer lightweight hold and shine. To its credit, Dyson has long marketed its tools for all types of hair, and I for one was impressed to see that ethos translate into its product formulations. The options to choose from are as follows: Two texture ranges (Straight to Wavy, or Curly to Coily), and within that, two different levels of hydration (Light or Rich Conditioning).

After our team determined which formula suited them best (if you’re not sure, Dyson has a handy quiz to help you find your match), the testing period began. Below, read along as five Refinery29 writers put Dyson’s new products through the paces.

Hair type/texture: Thick, wavy — with the odd ringlet and curl. 

Product: Pre-Style Cream Straight To Wavy Rich Conditioning and Post-Style Serum 

My one gripe when using the Dyson Airwrap — actually, most heated styling tools — is that my hair never looks as good an hour later compared to when I first styled it. I have naturally wavy hair (with the odd ringlet underneath) and it springs up as soon as I step outside. What I need is a styling product that acts like memory foam and holds each carefully blow-dried wave and flick in place. Hairspray doesn’t do it for me, but I think I’ve found that elusive product in Dyson’s Pre-Style Cream. It’s featherlight. All I do is rake three pumps through damp hair, rough dry with a blow dryer and get to work using either the Airwrap barrels or the round brush (the latter of which I find much easier). As you can see, it looks like I’ve had a professional blowdry. In fact, since using it, a few people have assumed I’d made a quick pitstop to the salon before meeting them. My hair stays voluminous and keeps its shape for much longer. It really is like magic.

I’m also obsessed with the Post-Style Serum, which I’ve found myself reaching for over brands like Olaplex and Kérastase. It flattens frizz and flyaways and revives second-day hair like an oil — all without the greasy finish. This is my hair a few hours after using both products. All I’ve done is run my fingers through it to zhush it up a bit more. The products are seriously impressive — and well worth the higher price tag.” — Jacqueline Kilikita, Deputy Beauty Director

Hair type/texture: Very thick, fine, wavy

Product: Pre-Style Straight to Wavy Light Conditioning & Post-Style Serum

“I use only three hair products regularly — shampoo, conditioner, and hair oil — and don’t use much to set my hair, save for a bit of light hairspray. I hate the feeling of product in my hair, and a lot of cream-based products I use weigh my hair down instantly. When I style my hair, I usually prep with a heat protectant spray, but sometimes forget (I’m human!) and I’m not super loyal to any one brand or product. I liked that Dyson’s Chitosan pre-styler came in four unique formulations based on your hair type and texture — products are not one size fits all! I picked the Straight to Wavy Light Conditioning version, which was lightweight and hydrating. The bottle suggested one to two pumps to start, but since I have very thick, medium-length hair, I used four. It absorbed pretty quickly as I finger-combed it into my mid-lengths and ends.

I recently tested the new Shark FlexFusion styler (which spoiler alert, I loved), but also love my Dyson Airwrap. When I use the latter, I like to rough dry my freshly washed strands before going in with the smoothing brush. Compared to other prep products I’ve tried, I noticed that my hair felt soft and hydrated even as I applied heat to my hair. My hair is very prone to frizz and flyaways (especially if I don’t apply hair oil after washing), but my hair felt smooth and soft after I finished styling. I sealed everything with a small dab of Dyson’s Post-Style Serum, which added soft hold and shine without weighing down my bouncy blowout. Most notable of all, the combo of both products resulted in significantly less frizz than usual. My hair looked and felt so healthy — and as I hinted above, I don’t like most hair products either due to heavy textures, strong scents, or the fact that they don’t live up to the claims. Dyson’s Chitosan range passed with flying colors, but I only wish they were less expensive! That said, since you don’t need to use a lot, I do expect both to last me a long time before having to repurchase.” — Karina Hoshikawa, Senior Writer

Hair type/texture: Curly, fine with natural volume

Product: Pre-Style Curly to Coily Light Conditioning

“My hair is naturally curly, but since cutting it into a bob, I’ve been using heat tools to style my hair, some of which are from Dyson. So I was super excited to put the brand’s new Chitosan Pre-Styling Hair Cream and Post-Styling Hair Serum to the test. After washing and conditioning my hair, I applied a few pumps of the Curly to Coily Light Conditioning Hair Cream to my palm and worked it through my wet strands, following with a detangling brush to ensure my hair was evenly coated. After I was done blow drying and flat ironing my hair, I followed up with a pump of the Curly to Coily Light Conditioning Hair Serum and finger combed that through my strands. My hair was left soft, shiny, and bouncy. Both products provided adequate moisture without weighing my hair down. I loved my results. 

While my flat iron curls loosened up a bit by the end of the week, my style has stayed in relatively good shape without having to do any touch-ups with my Dyson AirWrap. Overall, I think this duo got the job done and gave me good results. The only downside is that I wish they also offered some sort of heat protection, considering it was made to be used with hot tools.” — Kayla Greaves, Freelance Writer

Hair type/texture: fine postpartum hair

Product: Pre-Style Straight to Wavy Light Conditioning & Post-Style Serum

“It’s been a long, long time since I’ve done a proper blowout. I recently moved, plus I’m a new mom and I hadn’t had the chance to treat my hair right — no shower filter, hard water buildup, you name it. I finally installed a filter and did a hard water cleanse, and I was ready to see if Dyson’s Pre-Style Cream and Post-Style Serum could help me get back to that smooth, styled look.

On top of that, my hair is almost 8 months postpartum, and it’s been feeling really dead and dull. I was honestly worried these products would make my fine, thin hair clumpy, especially after all the hard water damage. But to my surprise, my hair has never been softer! I have a lot of fine hair, and even though I thought the creams might weigh it down, my blowout turned out bouncy and smooth without a hint of clumpiness. It gave my hair life and bounce again, which I hadn’t seen in so long.

The Post-Style Serum was a game-changer, too. Normally, serums leave my hair super oily, but this one just glided on and gave me shine without any residue. I also love the packaging; it’s super innovative and makes it easy to get every drop of product out, which is something I appreciate.

Overall, I’m seriously impressed with Dyson’s entire line. I think I’m officially a Dyson girlie now!” — Alexa Rhodes, Video Producer

Hair type/texture: Thick, wavy, coarse South Asian hair

Product: Pre-Style Straight to Wavy Light Conditioning & Post-Style Serum

“It’s no secret that I’m a die-hard Dyson fan, but I’m not ashamed to admit that I was actually a bit skeptical when the team told me that they were releasing styling products. The truth is this: I’m fatigued. I have new launches thrown at me every single day, and I already have my styling faves (John Frieda Frizz Ease Original Serum, I’m looking at you). I absolutely did not feel like I needed another brand in the mix, and I certainly didn’t expect to fall in love with the new products like I did.

Firstly, the packaging is pretty divine. It’s not posh and sculptural for the sake of it like I find a lot of high-end brands are. Rather, it’s purposeful, sleek, easy to use and easy to refill. The pump mechanism means you never dispense too much product, which is a flaw of mine (I’ve been known to go too far and then have to wash my hair all over again right away), but it is a little hard to scoop the product out if you have long nails. The products themselves don’t smell too strong, which can be a pro or a con depending on your preferences. I am a sucker for a scented hair product but I don’t mind the subtlety here. The texture is where these formulas really shine; they’re like air. They’re so lightweight that I fully didn’t believe they’d do anything, but my selfie speaks for itself. I’m shocked at the shine on my heavily bleached, coarse, pink hair. I use these products before and after styling, and the Post-Style Serum works really well to revive day-old, slept-in hair.” — Humeara Mohamed, Contributing Writer

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This holiday season, we’ve found the gifts that feel great to get and even better to give. Shop Well-Received, our collection of editor-appr...

This holiday season, we’ve found the gifts that feel great to get and even better to give. Shop Well-Received, our collection of editor-approved holiday gift guides, here.

Every year, the holidays roll around and the race to find the most showstopping, one-of-a-kind gift for your loved ones begins. But sometimes the best presents  — especially if you’re shopping for a boyfriend, husband, dad, brother, or any other guy in your life — are the everyday upgrades that may be a bit unexpected, but surprisingly full of heart. So, this year, skip the gift cards and bottles of scotch because we’re serving up something much better.

In the slides ahead, we’ve cracked the code for finding a present any man in your life will absolutely adore. The trick: He might not even know it was something he wanted or needed until you  hand it to him wrapped up in a bow. If there’s one unifying factor among our gift picks this year, it’s a throughline of practicality and function with an elevated twist — think everyday utility gloves reimagined in luxe suede, or a limited-edition pair of trail runners. 

Without any further ado, we present the ultimate wish list of thoughtful gifts sure to delight and surprise any guy on your list.

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Alex Mill Vinny Sherpa Jacket


Does he already own a fleece? Almost certainly yes. How old is it? If you’re afraid to ask, then it might be time for a new one. We love this one by Alex Mill, which has all the elements of his favorite lived-in jacket — roomy pockets, soft fleece lining, and a comfortable, boxy fit — with interesting details like contrast zipper pulls and patch pockets.

Alex Mill Vinny Sherpa Jacket, $, available at Alex Mill

Warby Parker Weller Sunglasses


Most men we know treat sunglasses as a functional item, not so much as a fashion accessory. Think of these Warby Parker frames as a 2.0 take on the classic Aviator shape, which is flattering on most face shapes. (If your guy wears glasses, get these with prescription lenses to really make his year.)

Warby Parker Weller Sunglasses, $, available at Warby Parker

Kith for Malin+Goetz Vapor Body Wash


We can’t bottle relaxation, but this foaming body wash comes close — and will be a welcome upgrade to any man’s self-care routine.

Kith for Malin+Goetz Vapor Body Wash, $, available at Kith

Kiehl's Better Screen UV Serum SPF 50+ Facial Sunscreen


Many of us have had a collective waking-the-F-up when it comes to UV protection — which hopefully extends to the guys in your life. Help him keep a good habit going with this new Kiehl’s formula, which has a lightweight serum texture that he’ll love to use, and has good-for-you ingredients to hydrate and pamper his skin.

Kiehl's Better Screen™ UV Serum SPF 50+ Facial Sunscreen, $, available at Sephora

Skims Mens 3" Boxer Brief


ICYMI, Skims has the boys covered these days (literally — the brand is the official underwear of the NBA). Leave loose elastic and hole-y boxers in 2024, and help him enter the new year with the soft, breathable undies he deserves. Plus, the brand is a tried and true favorite among R29 editors, so you already know the quality is there.

Skims MENS 3" BOXER BRIEF, $, available at Skims

Suitsupply Brown Gloves in Suede


Gloves are a winter necessity, so treat your giftee to a fancy pair he may otherwise not splurge on for himself. These buttery suede gloves will not only warm his hands, but also his heart. (Aww!)

SuitSupply Brown Suede Gloves, $, available at Suitsupply

Away The Front Pocket Carry-On


We can’t make holiday travel less stressful, but the right luggage can make the journey much smoother. Away’s upgraded version of its OG carry-on features an easy-access front pocket for important documents, a laptop, tablet, or other essentials he’ll want on hand. 

Away The Front Pocket Carry-On, $, available at Away

Sephora Favorites Cologne Sampler Set with Redeemable Voucher


Gifting fragrance for anyone is a tricky bet, unless you’re buying the fifth bottle of their signature scent. Luckily, Sephora has solved for the uncertain variable with its Cologne Sampler Set, which includes 11 sample vials (which alone last a deceptively long time), plus a voucher to redeem for a full-size bottle of his favorite.

Sephora Favorites Cologne Sampler Set with Redeemable Voucher, $, available at Sephora

Bombas Men's Marl Calf Sock 4-Pack


Socks may not be the splashiest gift idea, but adulthood is learning to appreciate a high-quality pair. Bombas is known for its three C’s — comfort, compression, and cushion — all of which any guy will want more of in his sock drawer.

Bombas Men's Marl Calf Sock 4-Pack, $, available at Bombas

Nisolo Loreto Messenger Bag


A work or commuter bag is an inherently functional accessory in his day-to-day routine, so why not make it a stylish one? This leather Nisolo messenger is sleek enough to not add unnecessary bulk or weight, and is decidedly easier on the eyes than a backpack.

Nisolo Loreto Messenger Bag, $, available at Nisolo

The North Face x UNDERCOVER SOUKUU Offtrail TR


Trail sneakers aren’t only for those who spend a lot of time in the great outdoors. Plus, he’ll love the extra fashion points that come along with copping this pair (which are comfortable and ruggedly stylish) from the limited-edition North Face collab with Japanese cult label Undercover.

The North Face TNF X UNDERCOVER SOUKUU Offtrail TR, $, available at The North Face

Cotopaxi Nido Accessory Bag


If he’s still traveling with a free gift-with-purchase toiletry bag (or worse, a plastic Ziploc), give his personal care items a permanent home in the form of this Cotopaxi dopp kit. He’ll love the multiple zippers and water-resistant fabric, not to mention the outdoor essentials brand’s subtle house codes like color-blocked zippers and the signature llama logo.

Cotopaxi Nido Accessory Bag - Cada Día, $, available at Cotopaxi

The Ordinary Squalane + Amino Acids Hydrating Lip Balm


Friends don’t let the guys in their lives walk around with dry, cracked lips. If he hasn’t found a lip balm he’ll actually use regularly, we’re willing to bet that this one will change that. The Ordinary’s first-ever lip product feels like a lightweight serum (i.e. not heavy or glossy), making it an option he won’t mind reaching for.

The Ordinary Squalane + Amino Acids Hydrating Lip Balm, $, available at Sephora

Beats Studio Pro Wireless Bluetooth Noise Cancelling Headphones


The right pair of headphones can transform a listening experience, making background music sound like he’s hearing his favorite band live. Beats is a tried-and-true purveyor of all things audio, and the Studio Pro is the ultimate treat for any music lover on your list.

Beats Studio Pro Wireless Noise Cancelling Headphones, $, available at Amazon

Bonobos Hudson Sweater Polo


This short-sleeved, collared knit is perfect for everyday wear, and is all but guaranteed to transform your giftee into a walking compliment magnet. Plus, it will become a go-to for transitional dressing or layering for seasons to come.

Bonobos Hudson Sweater Polo, $, available at Bonobos

Otterbox Symmetry Series Cactus Leather for MagSafe


We say this with love, but men are not always the gentlest creatures with expensive gadgets. If he has the cracked iPhone screen to back up this claim, it’s time to gift him a phone case that will not only look good, but will also protect his device from falls, drops, and other accidents.

Otterbox Symmetry Series Cactus Leather for MagSafe, $, available at Otterbox

Smythson Dreams And Thoughts Panama Notebook


Sure, his Notes app gets the job done, but we’d argue that handwritten notes are becoming a lost art. This elegant Smythson notebook is perfect for jotting down bon mots, grocery lists, spontaneous love letters…shall we continue?

Smythson Dreams And Thoughts Panama Notebook, $, available at Smythson

Aimé Leon Dore Micro Logo Hat


He’ll know a cool dad hat when he sees it. (Aka…right when you give it to him!)

Aimé Leon Dore Micro Logo Hat, $, available at Aimé Leon Dore

The Best Paste Matte Firm Hold Hair Paste


Celebrity groomer Kristan Serafino (whose A-list clients include Ryan Reynolds, Willem Dafoe, Jake Gyllenhaal, and other leading men) is behind The Best Paste — an easy-to-use styling pomade, which is the next best thing to sitting down in her chair.

The Best Paste Matte Firm Hold Hair Paste, $, available at Nordstrom

The Frankie Shop x Barbie Ronan T-Shirt


You’re Barbie, and he’s (still) just Ken. But, he’s your Ken — and that’s what matters. Make him smile with this sweet cotton T-shirt from The Frankie Shop’s Barbie collab.

The Frankie Shop Ronan T-Shirt x Barbie™ - White, $, available at The Frankie Shop

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This article was originally published in November 2020 and has been updated. As the 2024 election continues to crawl along, you may feel a ...

This article was originally published in November 2020 and has been updated.

As the 2024 election continues to crawl along, you may feel a heightened sense of anxiety. Actually who am I kidding — you’re definitely feeling a heightened sense of anxiety. And you’re not alone. You’re experiencing something known as election stress disorder… and it’s not pretty. Steven Stosny, PhD, founder of CompassionPower, coined the term during the tumultuous 2016 election. And while it’s not a diagnosable ailment, he says as the years go on, it gets even worse. That’s because before everyone and their mothers had iPhones, you’d only watch political news on the news, and at limited times. Now, thanks to technology, we’re inundated 24/7 — thus, election stress disorder is born.

Of course, ESD is also likely heightened right now because of… *gestures vaguely at 2024*. It’s a side effect of our inability to control issues, including the ongoing Israel-Hamas war, the devastating hurricane season, and the ongoing threat to women’s reproductive freedom. Situations like these make us feel powerless, according to Dr. Stosny. 

Those in marginalized populations may have a heightened sense of election stress disorder, due to the significant repercussions the outcome of this election could have on immigration, abortion, and the LGBTQ+ community. 

“The main thing is to recognize that we’re all feeling it,” Alfiee Breland-Noble, PhD, psychologist, author, founder of mental health nonprofit the AAKOMA Project, previously told Refinery29. “The stress is not unique to any one individual, because there’s so much riding on the outcome regardless of your political affiliation.”

Election stress is especially draining because it’s always on, Dr. Breland-Noble added. “You can’t go to anybody and complain. The people who agree with your political viewpoints are stressed about the same things you are,” she said. And the people who disagree with you? Trying to talk sense into them will probably only raise your stress levels even more. 

With the right tools, though, we can protect ourselves from ESD. It just takes intention and commitment. Ahead, are 10 strategies that are designed to help ease your tension. We can’t promise you’ll feel totally relaxed as we continue to wait for the results of the election — but you’ll be inching a little closer to calm. And in 2024, we’ll take what we can get.

Take some time away from your feeds — but don’t go overboard

Obvious? Maybe. But it bears repeating, because few people actually take breaks from their digital devices, and it’s easily the most powerful thing you can do to dial down stress. The key is not to try to go totally dark. “Don’t cut yourself off cold turkey or you’ll worry about what’s going on,” Dr. Stosny warned.

Instead, set time limits around your digital consumption: Give yourself a certain time in the day where you’re allowed to check the news and social media, and cut yourself off before bed.“When [the internet] is anxiety-provoking, your brain is secreting cortisol, a stimulant to help you deal with stress,” Dr. Stosny explained. 

Cortisol is meant to dip at night. Staying away from news in the evening can help improve your ability to drift off, and a good night’s sleep can actually help make you more resilient to stress. Another trick? Curate your social media feed. Yes, that means clearing out all your hate-follows. That doesn’t mean you have to delete anyone who disagrees with you (sometimes, it’s useful to see fresh viewpoints). But mute anyone whose posts consistently tick you off.

Spend some quality time with your loved ones (those who don’t stress you out)

Dr. Stosny said that connection is one of the main antidotes to election stress disorder. Creating and nurturing the bonds you have with loved ones is good for your mental health. Dr. Breland-Noble said. “You cannot function alone in this world, especially under these circumstances. It has to be good, healthy support,” Dr. Breland-Noble said.  “And you contribute to that by building positive interactions and positivity into your relationships with your loved ones.”

Both Dr. Stosny and Dr. Breland-Noble said that your crew can include people who agree or disagree with you politically, but the key is to surround yourself with people who don’t spike your stress levels. Right now, it’s fine to avoid people who do, for whatever reason. It’s also fine to sometimes put a moratorium on political talk during get-togethers, so you can focus on being present for your relationships in a way that nourishes and relaxes you instead. 

Find time to meditate

I know, I know — this sounds so cliché. But just like setting boundaries around your tech use, meditating helps. (Really — science says so.) Just get clear on what it really entails. “If you’ve never been a meditator, don’t expect to sit down and go for 30 minutes in complete silence,” Dr. Breland-Noble said. “Start with a minute.” Giving your mind some time in the day to rest and restore itself is essential for keeping your mental health in check.

Write down your thoughts

“When we’re nervous or anxious, our thoughts race. They go by very fast,” Dr. Stosny said. “The faster they go, the more overwhelming they seem.” Jotting down your thoughts helps interrupt the spiral, and slow your mind down.

Dr. Stosny recommends using a pen and paper for this exercise instead of typing your thoughts out on your phone. The old-school method activates more prefrontal cortex neurons, which helps regulate your stress response. The more you know!

Make the most out of your comfort food

Don’t worry, this tip is not about avoiding comfort food. Comfort food is great! Mine is Oreos. I love them, and they make me feel better. Dr. Breland-Noble does recommend, however, paying attention to your eating habits and really focusing on eating in a way that makes you feel good. Eating Oreos while scrolling through my cleaned-up Instagram feed before bed, after a stressful day when I need a little pick-me-up? It makes me feel good!

Eating a few right out of the box for breakfast while I stress-Google voter registration info, knowing that in a few minutes I’ll have a headache and a stomachache? It does not make me feel good. I could stand to do more of the former, and less of the latter. Eating is personal, and everyone’s best practices are different — sometimes your own will change day to day.

“It’s about being intentional when you eat — and forgiving yourself for not being able to be intentional all the time,” Dr. Breland-Noble noted.

At least try to get enough rest

I know it’s easier said than done these days! But you can do it: Try scheduling a bedtime on your phone, with an alarm and everything. Treat it like an appointment you’re keeping with yourself to encourage you to hit the hay at a reasonable time.

Or, take up napping. Remember that? “You want your brain in the best position to be able to support you throughout your day,” Dr. Breland-Noble said. “Your brain needs rest just like your body needs rest.” She said that if you don’t give your brain rest, you start the day at a deficit — sleep gives you an opportunity to do a reset, so in the morning you’re starting at a place of more calm and less stress.

“If you really give yourself the opportunity to get ample sleep, when you wake up the next day you’re starting with less stress than the day before because your mind just had a break,” she said.

Go outside and get some exercise

Another no-brainer — but sometimes we all need a nudge. “There are clinical studies that demonstrate that there is a direct link — the more exercise you do, the less stress you have,” Dr. Breland-Noble said. Whether it’s doing a full-blown workout or just going for a walk around your block, getting your body to move will turn your election stress — and any other kind of stress — down immensely.

Stay present

It’s easy to go off on a tangent inside your mind, imagining what the world will be like if we have a repeat of 2016 or January 6 (or worse).

Dr. Breland-Noble said it’s important to work on cultivating what’s called our “right mind.”“Cultivating your right mind means that every day you take the time to give your mind a break, however you need to do that,” she explained.

“It doesn’t have to be criss-cross applesauce on a yoga mat. It can be going outside for a walk. It can be playing the music that you like. It’s cooking, baking, whatever it is for you. It’s cultivating that right mind so that you don’t get pulled off in different directions with people feeding you stuff that’s going to trigger you.” Namely, the news, your friends, your family members, social media. If you allow these things to drag you off-course, you will be stressed about the election, she said: “Focus on day-to-day, moment-to-moment interactions.”

Dr. Breland-Noble said that for anxious people, the worry comes when they think too far ahead about what might happen that they have no control over, or they worry too much about stuff that’s already happened that they can’t change. “We can’t pay attention to what’s going to happen [on Election Day]. But you can focus on today, where you are in this moment. If I can stay rooted in this moment and stay present, that reduces my propensity to yield to the stress that comes with worrying about what’s going to happen,” she said.

Take control of what you can

One major aspect of election stress disorder is the feeling that the outcome is out of your control. And while yes, it’s important to acknowledge that we alone can’t change a nationwide election, we can make an effort.

The starting point is: Pat yourself on the back for voting. You exercised your right and were determined to make your voice be heard in this election. That’s no small feat. And you can keep going, too. “Do whatever you can: Write letters, go to demonstrations, lobby Congress,” Dr. Stosny said. You can’t control everything — but together with others, you can be part of a movement that brings about change.We know the stakes are high.

We can’t promise that everything’s going to be okay. All we can do is encourage you to do what you can to take care of yourself right now. Do what you can to fill up your fuel tank, so you have something to dip into in the months and years ahead.

Celebrate the small wins

There has been some good news coming out of this election cycle. Abortion is on the ballot in 10 states, and reproductive freedom is an issue that receives a majority of support from voters regardless of party. Puerto Rico’s anti-colonial Pro-Independence party has the potential to defeat the two traditional parties.

And, we may just have the very first woman become the highest-ranking elected official in the country. So while there is plenty to be anxious about, there are many, many small wins we can be grateful for right now too. And hopefully, more are on the way.

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Here ye, here ye! Gather round, for I have a wondrous tale of magic and mysticism to weave, of chivalry, of adventure, of romance… and of fall fashion. This season, we’re not looking forward for style inspiration, nor even to the very recent past — the trend cycle is turning to the Dark Ages, literally; we’re all going medieval.

I noticed the trend first taking shape at Rabanne. The brand’s spring/summer 2024 collection — a veritable feast of fringed, chainmail hoods — was an homage to the brand’s founder, Paco Rabanne, and the space age chainmail he first introduced in 1966.

Following suit, the fall/winter ‘24 runways eagerly took up the mantle. Consider, the armour-like corsets at Di Petsa, tunic-style dresses at Aniye Records, a chainmail headpiece made with keys at Dilara Findikoglu, and an ancient tapestry-inspired dress at Loewe. But it was Dior’s Resort ‘25 show that took it to the next level. Set at Drummond Castle in Perthshire, Scotland, models stalked through the gardens in lace-up corsets, cloaks, gothic-style gowns, chainmail knit dresses, leather arm braces, studded harnesses, and very literal Joan of Arc-style breastplates. It felt almost like Dior’s Creative Director, Maria Grazia Chiuri, was assembling her models for battle.

It’s not just the fashion world that’s obsessed. Pop culture is riding hard for all things medieval lately, too. Just take a look at the 2024 VMAs, where one pop megastar (ahem, Taylor Swift) donned one of Dior’s plaid, corseted high-low gowns, complete with lace-up leather arm braces and thigh-high boots, whilst another (Chappell Roan) dedicated her entire night to an array of medieval looks. Starting with a sheer, flowy Y/Project gown, Roan accessorised with a 300-year-old velvet robe, a massive crucifix pendant, dagger-like nails, fingerless chainmail gloves, gauntlet-style cuffs, and an actual sword. And, just to complete the fantasy, she was accompanied by an actual medieval-style bodyguard and a 600-year-old rug to walk on. (Because of course, why not? Chappell Roan doesn’t do anything by halves when it comes to fashion.)

Roan then took to the stage and took things up a notch, donning a full suit of armour to shoot a flaming crossbow and perform her hit, “Good Luck Babe”, with an assortment of armoured dancers. (She followed it by accepting an award for Best New Artist in a Rabanne chainmail dress and matching veil.)

Since all this is happening in the year 2024, the aesthetic has — of course — been granted a handy-dandy, social media-friendly nickname: You’ll see this trend referenced as either medievalcore, medieval weird core, or ‘weirdeval’ over on TikTok, popularised by accounts like @nichefashiongirl and @lauralaurachova. But, like most “cores,” it’s not a new sensation. There have been several resurgences. In the late ‘90s, there was the witchy whimsigoth aesthetic, heavily inspired by medieval fashion (see Jean Paul Gaultier S/S 1994, Betsy Johnson F/W 1997, and Anna Sui F/W 1998). Before that, a cultural obsession with Arthurian myth in the late ‘60s (see the rise of medieval, psychedelic folk rock, and films like 1967’s Camelot). Turn back the clock even further, to the mid-1880s, and the Pre-Raphaelites were calling back to the Middle Ages and chivalric romances in their art, poetry, and aesthetic ideals.

But why has medieval influence made its return now? Partly because, just as in the mid-1880s, late 1960s, and late ‘90s, we’re in a period of political change and upheaval. The Middle Ages were fraught with division, war, moral panic (saints versus sinners) and marked class divides (kings versus peasants). Fairy tales, folklore, high fantasy, and historical myth have long been accessible forms of escapism. Now, we just have the internet to make it even easier.

“‘Medievalcore’ represents a fusion of historical appreciation and escapist fantasy, tapping into the growing enthusiasm for LARPing (live-action role-playing),” explains Depop’s trends specialist and TikTok creator Agus Panzoni. “Additionally, pop culture has played a key role in the rise of medieval aesthetics, from HBO’s House of the Dragon to the viral success of the ACOTAR book series on TikTok, both introducing Gen Z to a blend of medieval history and fantasy.” According to Panzoni, searches for armour on Depop are up 128%, chainmail 127%, corsets 101%, and coifs — a medieval type of headpiece — up 833% since the start of the year.

Sydney Stanbeck, head of global trends and insights at Pinterest, agrees, noting that the platform has also seen searches for “Renaissance faire outfits” more than triple. More and more, users are shopping directly through pins, particularly for niche items like veils, handmade chainmail, replica armour, and medieval-style corsets — many of which can be found on crafter-to-customer sites like Etsy.

In a sense, medievalcore is the natural progression from the coquette aesthetic — the hyper-feminine, bow-and-ruffle-adorned styles that dominated 2023 — and interest in vintage fashion and period shows like Bridgerton. The difference is that, now, the high fantasy, high femme elven princess also has a sword — and knows how to use it. Medievalcore is beautiful but battle-ready, primed for a generation of young people fighting for reproductive rights and against gender violence. It’s a means to escape reality and a way to face it head-on.

Medievalcore is beautiful but battle-ready, primed for a generation of young people fighting for reproductive rights and against gender violence. It’s a means to escape reality and a way to face it head-on.

It’s no wonder why, then, we’re also witnessing renewed romanticism surrounding figures like Joan of Arc — who, technically lived through the early Renaissance, but medievalcore isn’t too particular about its references (rather, it’s like a smorgasbord of historical and fantasy references. You can cherrypick based on which ‘character’ you would like to embody).

“[She’s been] dubbed ‘The Patron Saint of Gen Z’ on TikTok, with searches for her on Depop up +484% from July to September,” Panzoni explains. In fact, it’s just been announced that Baz Luhrmann will be directing a new film about the teenage martyr. Unsurprisingly, Zendaya is way ahead of us — she dressed up as Joan of Arc for the 2018 Met Gala, the theme of which was ‘Heavenly Bodies: Fashion and the Catholic Imagination’. But she’s not alone in the fan club; it’s practically a right of passage for cool girls to dress as Joan of Arc. Lorde did it in 2017, Chloë Sevigny in 2007, Fiona Apple in 1997, and Kate Bush in the 1980s. Most recently? Abigail Morris of The Last Dinner Party dressed as Joan of Arc for Halloween and Jenna Ortega described Joan as her dream acting role. (Fingers crossed Bad Luhrmann gives her a call!)

Naturally, I too want a slice of the medieval action — I mean, who doesn’t want to dress like a knight about to go into battle or an ethereal lady of the lake? And so, I took on my own quest, determined to find the very best medieval attire out there (or at least, medieval-inspired if the styling is right). Read on for all my most treasured discoveries. Of course, there’s plenty of costume inspiration here if you are desiring a true-to-character look, like Chappell Roan or Zendaya, but also plenty of styling tips for more subtle slayage. Consider this the ultimate guide to mastering the medievalcore aesthetic this fall and winter.

Medieval-inspired fashion

Mimic armour with light chainmail pieces, metallic knits & sequins

Naturally, any medieval knight worth a heroic ballad or two needs a set of armour. Unfortunately, a full set of clanking metal is not only impractical but also sure to raise some eyebrows (like in that picture of Fiona Apple). Instead, mimic the appearance of armour and chainmail with molten metal pieces, lightweight metallic knits, draped chains, and sequins.

Fantasy & medieval tapestry motifs (hint: look for unicorns)

One of the most iconic and recognisable motifs of medieval art is the unicorn, a symbol of purity and chastity most notably seen in “The Unicorn Tapestries”. A subtle way to nod to your medieval inspirations is to dress with similar iconography. Luckily, plenty of modern-day designers are also inspired by the mythical creature, from Selkie’s The Last Unicorn collection to Samantha Pleet’s Coat of Arms corset.

You can’t go wrong with velvet in a rich jewel tone

Imagine a medieval queen. What is she wearing? I bet you’re envisioning a sweeping gown in a rich, sumptuous velvet. The color? A bold jewel tone like emerald green, ruby red, sapphire blue, or amethyst purple. Of course, in reality, most medieval women probably wore simple wool dresses in neutral tones, but this is fantasy and you don’t need to limit yourself. For a more wearable take, consider a velvet blouse or jacket — it’ll add a regal touch to even the most basic of outfits.

Don a hood or hooded dress for an air of mystery

Hoods were a vital part of medieval fashion. For knights, armoured ones shielded them from weapons, whilst thick woollen ones provided protection from the elements. Since we no longer have to contend with rogue arrows and long, treacherous journeys on foot anymore, opt instead for a 2024-appropriate sheer knit dress or silky top. Perfect for your next party, too!

It’s all about the sleeves: from puff ball & Juliet designs, to extra wide, flowing bell silhouettes

When it comes to medievalcore, sleeves are big business. From big and puffed to long and flowing, just make sure yours make a statement. My personal favorite? The Juliet style, so named for the titular Shakespeare character. These are puffed and round at the top and slim through the arm.

Cloaks, capes & ponchos for all your perilous quests

Take inspiration from Lord of the Rings characters Arwyn and Éowyn here. Of course, they’re not donning a parka or trench coat over their gowns and armour — they’re wearing flowing velvet capes and warm woolen cloaks to battle Orcs and creep through moonlit forests. Why not do the same, even if you’re just popping out for a sweet treat and coffee?

Drop-waist dresses

Over the summer, we noticed that the drop-waist dress had made a comeback, but in a chic, modern way — in light linen and bright, fresh shades apt for a European city break. For a medievalcore riff on the silhouette, you want a deep, dark color palette and sumptuous fabrics like satin, the likes of which you imagine an ancient queen to wear as she presides over her kingdom.

Necklines: square & off-the-shoulder

A major part of the glamour and magic of a medieval-style gown is the neckline. Probably the most commonly thought of is the square neck, but I urge you to look to characters like ​​Morgana Pendragon from the BBC’s Merlin or Game of Thrones’ Cersei and Margaery Tyrell to inspire your fall silhouettes. They often wore beautiful off-the-shoulder dresses that showed off their jewels (remember, this is a historically-inspired aesthetic to cherry-pick from, not a factually accurate costume competition).

Corsetry & lace-up details

Corsets have been a fashion mainstay for a while now, fueled by period dramas like Bridgerton. A medievalcore outfit needn’t be as straightlaced as a regency-inspired one, though — a linen dress or blouse with lace-up detailing on the bust recalls the inner tunics medieval women would wear under their gowns.

Medieval-inspired jewelery, shoes & accessories

Headpieces, headbands & chainmail-inspired hoods

Accessories can play a major role in transforming your everyday wardrobe into medievalcore attire, headgear especially. Perhaps most recognisable is the cone-shaped hat women would wear called a Hennin, made to replicate the silhouette of a steeple. It seems modern designers are keen to bring these back: In his Spring/Summer ‘25 collection, Conner Ives paired his very own Hennin with jeans and pointed-toe sandals. A more wearable alternative would be an ornate headband — or, if you want to toughen up your outfit, a chainmail hood. (Knit options are also great for bearing the cold.)

Body chains & chainmail bodywear

Intricate body chains or chainmail bodywear can transform even the most basic of dresses into a warrior princess get-up. I’ve spent hours daydreaming about the beautiful creations by Falconiere, which combine traditional chainmail with modern designs like halter neck bralettes, mini skirts, and girdles. (These chainmail tights the brand has been teasing on its socials are my Roman Empire).

Chainmail-inspired bags

Another easy, subtle way to nod to armour is with a chainmail bag. Consider pairing your holiday partywear with one of these rather than your typical sequin bag — high-shine but with a rough and ready edge.

Medieval-inspired jewelery: Joan of Arc swords, ancient gemstones & rustic gold pieces

Whether you’re slaying dragons or facing modern-day demons (trying to connect to the printer, doom-scrolling, resisting another cup of coffee…), arm yourself with jewelery. Or just dress yourself in ornate jewels and gleaming gold that could be part of said dragon’s hoard.

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This first week of November invites all zodiac signs to let their passions lead the way, particularly since we’ll still be feeling the t...

This first week of November invites all zodiac signs to let their passions lead the way, particularly since we’ll still be feeling the transformative energy of the Scorpio new moon up until November 11, making this an ideal week for setting clear, deep and healing intentions for what we see ourselves evolving into these next six months. 

Mercury, the planet of communication, enters Sagittarius on the 2nd, and Mars, the planet of action, enters Leo one day later. Both Mercury and Mars will be in the pre-shadow period of their respective retrogrades this week; although these transits are infusing fiery momentum into the cosmos this Scorpio season, we’d do well to pace ourselves as we embark on new beginnings. The more we take our time and reflect on key decisions, the easier it’ll become to flow through the week and remain optimistic, no matter what political terrain we end up in. 

The quarter moon in Aquarius on November 9 invites us to think not only of our individual needs but also of the needs and wellbeing of the collective. Check in with your friends, your family, your neighbors and strangers. Cultivating a more humanitarian approach will be essential in this week’s post-election climate (especially for readers based in the United States). 

As one of the most highly anticipated weeks of the year comes to an end, the Aquarius quarter moon asks of us: How can we better lean on our community and prioritize our collective evolution rather than feeling like we must be hyper-individualistic in order to survive? What would it look and feel like for us to focus on thriving in community as we co-create a world that’s equitable and free?

Read your horoscopes for your Sun and Rising signs for the most in-depth forecast.

Aries Sun & Rising:

Aries, last week’s Scorpio new moon encouraged you to face fears you may have regarding cultivating generational wealth, and not allow those fears to stop you taking steps toward achieving your goals. This is an ideal week to speak with a financial advisor or download an app or course that helps you be more mindful about your relationship with money, investing, spending and circulating your wealth. With Juno, the asteroid of marriage, entering Scorpio and activating your sector of depth and resources, you’re seeking more profound intimacy with a partner or partners who aren’t afraid to dig deep on topics that people tend to ignore. 

Your planetary ruler, Mars, enters Leo this week and while Mars will begin its retrograde next month on December 6, having the planet in a fellow fire sign is everything you need to remain energized as we enter a new month. You may be in the mood to have more fun, go on dates, give yourself a makeover and be more flirtatious and playful in general. Say yes to the social invites you receive this week if they feel good to you, and let your confidence lead the way without allowing your ego or pride to burn bridges or create drama just for the sake of it. 

Taurus Sun & Rising:

Taurus, last week’s Scorpio new moon helped you extend an olive branch to any intimate relationship that has experienced its share of hardship or challenge lately. You’re ready for a fresh start in your love life and with Juno, the asteroid of marriage, entering Scorpio and activating your marriage sector this week, you’ll notice that your relationships suddenly intensify, even if your planetary ruler, Venus, is still in Sagittarius for a little over a week. Just make sure that you are respecting your partner’s need for space and independence during Juno’s transit through Scorpio, while also honoring your own. 

With Mars, the planet of action, entering your fellow fixed sign of Leo on November 3, power struggles could take place in your domestic sector. You’re seeking greater independence or time to do your own thing but with Uranus, the planet of surprise, retrograde in your sign, things might not immediately flow to you as easily as you would like. Wait until Saturn, the planet of challenge, ends its four-month retrograde in Pisces on November 15 before trying to initiate major changes at home. In the meantime, be a peaceful observer.

Gemini Sun & Rising:

Gemini, last week’s Scorpio new moon continues to influence your health and wellness journey, and you may get a sign this week that helps you take this aspect of your life more seriously. If you’ve been overextending yourself, especially with Mercury and Venus now both in Sagittarius in your sector of partnership, this new moon energy will help you set boundaries, say no, and put your own needs first, even if this isn’t something you’re used to doing. With Mercury, your planetary ruler, encouraging you to open up to the right people, try to find an accountability buddy who can help you stay on track with your health and fitness goals.

Mars, the planet of action, enters Leo on November 3 and stimulates your sector of creativity and communication. Take advantage of Mars’ direct motion in Leo because starting at the end of November and as we get closer to Mars retrograde, which begins on December 6, you may find your motivation for your creative ventures decreases. For now, the combination of the Scorpio new moon and Mars in Leo will make you feel on top of your game.

Cancer Sun & Rising:

Cancer, since you are ruled by the moon, you are very much still in la-la land as you integrate the downloads from the ethereal Scorpio new moon that took place on November 1. You have until the 11th to set your new moon intentions and since this lunation took place in your sector of fate, children, creativity and true love, many of your intentions this week will have to do with opening your heart to love and letting your imagination take more of the lead. How can you invite more playfulness and passion into your life? Reflect on this question as the month begins. 

You’ve made it through a major rite of passage now that Mars has left your sign and entered Leo. Mars will re-enter your sign early next year due to its retrograde beginning on December 6, which means there are still key lessons that Mars wants to teach you about asserting yourself, setting boundaries and finding a healthy balance between tending to your needs while caring about the needs of those closest to you. For now, Mars’ direct movement in Leo urges you to be more self-focused and place your attention on getting your money right. If you follow Mars’ momentum, expect waves of abundance to come pouring through this month.

Leo Sun & Rising:

Leo, how are you feeling after that regenerative Scorpio new moon? This week is ideal for having healing conversations with family members regarding where you stand, what you will and will not tolerate, and the intentions you have for your family in the six months to come. As much as you tend to be the one who has it all together (at least externally), being vulnerable and willing to ask for help if you need it is a key lesson that the cosmos wants you to accept this week, especially since Juno, the asteroid of intimacy, is also in Scorpio at this time, highlighting your sector of roots.

The highlight of this week for you comes with Mars entering your sign on November 3, where it will stay for an extended period of time due to Mars retrograde beginning on December 6. Mars will dip in and out of your sign and also make its way back into Cancer during the retrograde, so you’ll vacillate between moments of being focused on self-transformation and moments where you’ll want to be more of a hermit and integrate key lessons on spiritual renewal. For now, this week is more about stepping into the limelight after a period of hibernation and letting yourself receive all the accolades you deserve.

Virgo Sun & Rising:

Virgo, this month’s Scorpio new moon energy continues to be felt this week and you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the way you’re able to stand up for yourself and others, and speak, communicate and create with greater self-confidence. When Juno, the asteroid of marriage, also enters Scorpio on the 3rd, you may have an auspicious conversation with a romantic partner that allows you to share your intentions while remaining open to hearing theirs. If you’re single and not romantically intertwined at this point in time, you may notice that your social and love life deepens over these next six months, and you may end up boo’d up by the Scorpio full moon of 2025. 

Mars is in Leo for an extended stay due to Mars retrograde beginning in December, so your sector of spirituality, healing, solitude and enclosure is activated. This can feel like a contrast to the more passionate energy of Scorpio season; while Mars in Leo typically encourages us to let ourselves be seen and celebrated, the fact that it’s currently in your solitude sector means you may initially feel more introspective and guarded this week. Since Mars isn’t retrograde for another month, you’d benefit from taking baby steps toward consistently putting yourself out there, even if it scares you.

Libra Sun & Rising:

Libra, the Scorpio new moon energy continues to highlight ways that you may have been fearing your own potential, but you now feel enough power and courage to push past that fear. With the South Node, symbol of our karmic past, getting ready to leave your sign at the start of 2025, you’re evolving more rapidly, and this new moon energy is precipitating this evolution. Stay hydrated this week because we have Mercury, Venus and Mars all currently in fire signs, which will stimulate your passion and creativity but could also lead to you doing too much at once and feeling overwhelmed.

Mars’ transit in Leo will particularly boost your social sector these next few months but once Mars retrograde begins on December 6, it could considerably slow this area of your life down. If you have a major event that you’d like to plan or host, do your best to get it done this month rather than next, because you’ll feel more energy and momentum while Mars is direct in your sector of social network and technology. Avoid procrastinating on projects that you know will lead you closer to achieving your long-term goals.

Scorpio Sun & Rising:

Scorpio, this is your rebirth week. This is your time to kick-start the month of November feeling self-focused while affirming yourself and stepping into your highest timeline. The blank slate that the recent Scorpio new moon has offered you is yours for the taking. You can create a new normal or life for yourself, or even decide that there’s nothing “normal” that you want to pursue right now — let yourself be as weird and out there as your spirit is seeking. This will feel profoundly liberating. 

Juno, the asteroid of marriage, enters your sign this week and encourages you to get honest about your romantic desires without feeling like it’s a sign of weakness to reveal your vulnerabilities to a trusted few. With your planetary ruler, Mars, also entering Leo this week, your mission is to find a balance between your tough and sensitive side, your masculine and feminine energy. Do your best to integrate both aspects of yourself so that they create a seamless harmony.

Sagittarius Sun & Rising:

Sag, with Mercury and Venus both in Sagittarius this week, you’re getting a  preview of what Sag season will have in store. These fiery transits are helping you come out of the hibernation shell that you’ve been in since Scorpio season started. Your sector of spirituality is very much still influenced by last week’s Scorpio new moon, and when it comes to relationships, the fact that Juno, the asteroid of marriage, is now in Scorpio in your spirituality sector means that you may be feeling more committed and naturally monogamous than people typically expect of you. There’s a bit of a contrast between the freedom-loving energy of the Sag placements in the air and the more controlling nature of the Scorpio transits. Don’t fight this contrast — get curious about it.

Mars’ newfound presence in Leo adds dynamic energy to your life this week by reminding you of ways you can explore unfamiliar territories and travel to new states of mind, either literally, by going on a trip these next few weeks, or mentally, through engaging in research or reading a thrilling new book. Spend time this week engaging with your senses in expansive ways that help you feel mentally and spiritually inspired by the infinite possibilities that the universe has to offer.

Capricorn Sun & Rising:

Capricorn, the energy from the recent Scorpio new moon is helping you refine your social life by being even more selective about who you share your thoughts, resources and dreams with. Saturn, your planetary ruler, is still retrograde for a little over a week so you’re feeling ultra sensitive to outside energy. It’s best to ease into November with a gradual approach to connecting with others.  

At the same time, since the asteroid of marriage, Juno, is also in Scorpio starting this week, there’s value in letting your more emotional side be seen, particularly in your friendships and digital profiles. Letting people see your imperfections rather than your perfectly curated self will humanize you more. 

You may be feeling restless due to Mars, the planet of action, being in Leo and also in the pre-shadow phase of its upcoming retrograde. It feels like you have one foot on the gas and the other on the brake, which can generate a sense of friction. But this is also encouraging you to make sure you’re prioritizing what you care most about and that you’re delegating tasks you’re not as capable of handling at this time. Your biggest mission this week is not to be too prideful to ask for help or to admit if you don’t feel fully confident about something.

Aquarius Sun & Rising:

Aquarius, as much as you prefer making decisions based on logic or practicality, the recent Scorpio new moon has reminded you of the power of intuition and foresight. If you haven’t set your intentions for the Scorpio new moon, this is one of the best weeks to do so as the energy will continue to be felt potently up until November 11.  

Meanwhile Pluto, Scorpio’s ruler, is getting ready to re-enter your sign on November 19 and you can already sense that everything you once knew as a solid foundation is going through a radical and dramatic shift. Be patient with yourself and others this week as we’re all adjusting to the transformations that the universe is imposing, as well as the ones that are self-imposed. 

With Mars, the planet of action, in your opposite sign of Leo for the rest of the year, your sector of marriage is activated, indicating that you should spend more time prioritizing your intimate partnerships, especially if you had neglected them when Mars was in Cancer in your sector of routine and wellness. Take advantage of the fact that Mars is direct in Leo until December 6. If there’s anything you need to say or do to clear the air or release grudges in your relationships, now’s the time to do so; once Mars begins its retrograde, we’ll be more susceptible to getting caught up in pettiness or misunderstandings.

Pisces Sun & Rising:

Pisces, you’re in an ambitious mood as you begin the week thanks to both Mercury and Venus now in Sagittarius and activating your sector of career and reputation. This is definitely the time to allow yourself to dream bigger and even get caught up in fantasies or “delusions” about what’s possible for your life. Avoid sharing too much of your intentions with others before you’ve gotten a chance to plant the seeds and take the necessary actions to breathe life into those intentions. This is an essential week for protecting your energy from people who may mean well but who aren’t as much of a visionary as you are and could therefore be acting like Debbie Downers. 

With Mars, the planet of action, now in Leo for the rest of the year, your sector of routine and wellness is stimulated, so you may feel called to be more physically active and spend more time outdoors. Make the most of Mars’ direct motion in Leo because as we approach the retrograde, which begins in early December, you won’t feel as energetic as you do this week. This week is about taking intentional and bold action. If your gut tells you to go for it, go for it.

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