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Liquid error: wrong number of arguments (1 for 2)This article will tell you how to have a successful and lasting relationship so you will never have to go looking again.
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#REDIRECT [[Build-a-Long-Lasting-Relationship]]
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[[Category:Relationships]]
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[[Category:Articles in Quality Review]]
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== Steps ==
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## Never do something you know that would hurt or upset your partner. If you know something that hurts your partner and are aware your doing it, stop. It doesn't matter if your friends are saying nasty things such as "your whipped" and if they are you should be pulling them up on what they say as it's not ok and is a form of bullying, true friends will understand your situation and respect you and the relationship. If your partner needs to be with you or just needs that in a relationship your friends don't need to know and should respect that and enjoy your company. It's wrong for them to give your partner hell saying they are sensitive and then for them to be over sensitive about your partner being present.
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## Don't have opposite gender friends. This one goes bad eventually, it is a good idea to cut ties with ex's, crushes and people who are interested in you even if you aren't interested in them. If you don't do this it will cause stress and misery on your relationship and unwanted drama for the both of you. It's also respectful and good manners. Think about it.
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## When you have an argument don't go out. A lot of bad things happen when people go out angry, they waste money, they do things they will regret forever, they hurt others and the ones they know, other people don't need to deal with your issues. Stay home and go into a different room until you cool off or go sit outside or in your car. When your ready come in always apologize first but make sure before hand you know why which should always be for hurting your partners feelings. Make sure you have thought about what you want to say before going back in and do not dwell on it for days.
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## If your partner annoys you to the point they are driving you away tell them. Don't bury your head in complaining to friends, or hanging out with your friends without your partner so they feel unwanted and not part of the group. Tell them whats annoying you in a nice way as they might not even know or think it bothers you that much. Type a list of what annoys you, both of you make suggestions on how to fix this not just one of you. If it can't be fixed and that bothers you too much you need to see a psychologist to find out the underlying cause. You could have short temper or an anger problem you didn't notice. If so you will need to see a counselor to find ways to get rid of your anger.
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## Accept that you won't always feel as in love at times. It is normal for relationships to get boring or for you to feel less attracted to your partner. It means you have reached a comfort level you just need to get use to it. If your the one bored then you need to come up with things to relight the flame but don't do it all the time its exhausting and unrealistic. Remember your partner is not always going to be sexy, looking good, being sweet and attending to everything. They are human and who wants to put in so much effort all the time. Relax.
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## Get rid of habits that are impacting your relationship. If you watch porn, stop. You will find you will perform better and last in bed and eventually enjoy the feel of it more. You will feel way more intimate with your partner and they will get that glow back they had when they met you that you were head over heels about, they might even start dressing up and be more keen to do things for you as they won't feel like an option out of these people you look at. No one likes to be an option. You will also prevent them from being self conscious, depressed and prevent yourself from causing them mental health issues and yourself.
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## Treat them as your best friend. They have earned it and will be by your side longer than anyone else.
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== Tips ==
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*Be open with your partner about everything even the bad
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*Treat your partner right even if they are being mean
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*Tell them they are being mean and you don't want to chat until they are calm and you are calm
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