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===Getting in Touch===
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===Getting in Touch===
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#Wait a while. If you just broke up, it's not a good idea to get back together with someone, or tell him that you still have feelings for him. Break-ups take a while to sink in. If you just got dumped yesterday, you'll obviously still have feelings for him. But it's not time to let him know that right now. Wait a while, process what's happened, and then get back in touch in the future if you still feel the same way. There's always a chance.<ref>http://www.bustle.com/articles/21534-6-signs-youre-still-in-love-with-your-ex</ref>[[Image:Tell Your Ex You Still Have Feelings for Him Step 1 Version 3.jpg|center]]
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#Wait a while. If you just broke up, it's not a good idea to get back together with someone, or tell him that you still have feelings for him. Break-ups take a while to sink in. If you just got dumped yesterday, you'll obviously still have feelings for him. But it's not time to let him know that right now. Wait a while, process what's happened, and then get back in touch in the future if you still feel the same way. There's always a chance.<ref>http://www.bustle.com/articles/21534-6-signs-youre-still-in-love-with-your-ex</ref>[[Image:Tell Your Ex You Still Have Feelings for Him Step 1 Version 3.jpg|center]]
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#*There's no set time to wait until you get back in touch with an ex, but you need at least enough time to process the break-up. You have to feel like your relationship is actually over. Give it a few weeks at least, and a few months for longer relationships.
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#*There's no set time to wait until you get back in touch with an ex, but you need at least enough time to process the break-up. You have to feel like your relationship is actually over. Give it a few weeks at least, and a few months for longer relationships.
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#Reach out. If you want to talk to him, send him a little message via text, or e-mail to let him know that you're still having thoughts and want to talk to him in person. Just shoot him a short message that says, "Hey, I've been thinking about you a lot lately. Can we talk sometime soon?"[[Image:Tell Your Ex You Still Have Feelings for Him Step 6 Version 3.jpg|center]]
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#Reach out. If you want to talk to him, send him a little message via text, or e-mail to let him know that you're still having thoughts and want to talk to him in person. Just shoot him a short message that says, "Hey, I've been thinking about you a lot lately. Can we talk sometime soon?"[[Image:Tell Your Ex You Still Have Feelings for Him Step 6 Version 3.jpg|center]]
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#*In some cases, it can be really helpful to try to write out your feelings in a letter. If this is the case, do it, but think twice before you mail it. It might be better to have the talk in person, so you can remember what he's like to be around actually.
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#*In some cases, it can be really helpful to try to write out your feelings in a letter. If this is the case, do it, but think twice before you mail it. It might be better to have the talk in person, so you can remember what he's like to be around actually.
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#*Don't try to get back together online. This isn't an appropriate conversation to have via Facebook messenger. Have it in person, or on the phone at least.
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#*Don't try to get back together online. This isn't an appropriate conversation to have via Facebook messenger. Have it in person, or on the phone at least.
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===Having the Talk===
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===Having the Talk===
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#Meet somewhere in public. When you arrange to meet, it's important to meet somewhere neutral. If you used to live together, don't try to meet back at your old place, where you'll have lots of old memories. It's important to think about the future objectively, so you don't make a bad decision based on your feelings.[[Image:Tell Your Ex You Still Have Feelings for Him Step 7.jpg|center]]
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#Meet somewhere in public. When you arrange to meet, it's important to meet somewhere neutral. If you used to live together, don't try to meet back at your old place, where you'll have lots of old memories. It's important to think about the future objectively, so you don't make a bad decision based on your feelings.[[Image:Tell Your Ex You Still Have Feelings for Him Step 7.jpg|center]]
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