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#Don't crack jokes about his height. Just like you probably don't like people cracking jokes because you're tall, he probably doesn't like hearing jokes about how short he is. Try to skip the wisecracks, particularly when you're first starting out.<ref>http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2015/03/5-dating-tips-for-short-men/</ref>[[Image:Date a Short Guy As a Tall Girl Step 4.jpg|center]]
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#Don't crack jokes about his height. Just like you probably don't like people cracking jokes because you're tall, he probably doesn't like hearing jokes about how short he is. Try to skip the wisecracks, particularly when you're first starting out.<ref>http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2015/03/5-dating-tips-for-short-men/</ref>[[Image:Date a Short Guy As a Tall Girl Step 4.jpg|center]]
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#Work on your bias. If you've mostly dated guys who are taller than you, it may take you some time to adjust, and that's okay. You can even date other guys while you're adjusting, as long as you all agree you're not exclusive. Give yourself the time you need to get to know him and adjust your feelings about his height.<ReF>http://shortofheight.com/dating-short-guys/</ref>[[Image:Date a Short Guy As a Tall Girl Step 5.jpg|center]]
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#Work on your bias. If you've mostly dated guys who are taller than you, it may take you some time to adjust, and that's okay. You can even date other guys while you're adjusting, as long as you all agree you're not exclusive. Give yourself the time you need to get to know him and adjust your feelings about his height.<ReF>http://shortofheight.com/dating-short-guys/</ref>[[Image:Date a Short Guy As a Tall Girl Step 5.jpg|center]]
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#* Remind yourself that him being shorter than you doesn't make him less of a man and that you being taller than him doesn't make you less of a woman.
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#* Remind yourself that him being shorter than you doesn't make him less of a man and that you being taller than him doesn't make you less of a woman.
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=== Focusing on the Positives ===
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=== Focusing on the Positives ===
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#Focus on what you like about him. That is, if you're concerned about the height difference, you're somewhat focused on the externals. Instead, think about what you like about him as a person, such as his charm, his wit, his intelligence, or his compassion. You can't build a relationship on height alone, but you can build a relationship on personality.<ref>http://www.glamour.com/story/true-dating-confession-my-boyf-1</reF>[[Image:Date a Short Guy As a Tall Girl Step 6.jpg|center]]
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#Focus on what you like about him. That is, if you're concerned about the height difference, you're somewhat focused on the externals. Instead, think about what you like about him as a person, such as his charm, his wit, his intelligence, or his compassion. You can't build a relationship on height alone, but you can build a relationship on personality.<ref>http://www.glamour.com/story/true-dating-confession-my-boyf-1</reF>[[Image:Date a Short Guy As a Tall Girl Step 6.jpg|center]]
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