Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple

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	==Steps==		==Steps==
	===Creating the Front Envelope===		===Creating the Front Envelope===
−	#Use “Mr. '''and Mrs.” + the husband’s full name for a traditional approach.''' This was the proper way to address invitations to married couples for a long time, so use it if you’re going for a more traditional or old-fashioned style. Write “Mr. and Mrs.” followed by the husband’s full name. Include the middle name if you know it, or leave it out if you don’t.<ref>https://www.southernliving.com/weddings/how-to-address-wedding-invitations?slide=03fb0ab6-a23e-4500-8751-4e95993dfc11#03fb0ab6-a23e-4500-8751-4e95993dfc11</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 1.jpg|center]]	+	#Use “Mr. '''and Mrs.” + the husband’s full name for a traditional approach.''' This was the proper way to address invitations to married couples for a long time, so use it if you’re going for a more traditional or old-fashioned style. Write “Mr. and Mrs.” followed by the husband’s full name. Include the middle name if you know it, or leave it out if you don’t.<ref>https://www.southernliving.com/weddings/how-to-address-wedding-invitations?slide=03fb0ab6-a23e-4500-8751-4e95993dfc11#03fb0ab6-a23e-4500-8751-4e95993dfc11</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 1 Version 2.jpg|center]]
	#* For example, if the married couple was Thomas and Jane Smith, the invitation would read, “Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Smith.” If you know that Thomas’ middle name is Joseph, then the full address would be “Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Joseph Smith.”		#* For example, if the married couple was Thomas and Jane Smith, the invitation would read, “Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Smith.” If you know that Thomas’ middle name is Joseph, then the full address would be “Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Joseph Smith.”
	#*Remember that this is a bit old-fashioned, and some women may oppose having their name grouped in with their husband’s. Adjust your approach based on whether you prefer to be modern or traditional.		#*Remember that this is a bit old-fashioned, and some women may oppose having their name grouped in with their husband’s. Adjust your approach based on whether you prefer to be modern or traditional.
−	#Write each partner’s full name and title for a more modern style. The modern approach is listing each partner separately, even if they have the same last name. Precede each partner with “Mr.” or “Mrs.”, then list their full name. For example, “Mr. Alejandro Hernandez and Mrs. Tatiana Hernandez.”<ref>https://www.brides.com/story/how-to-address-your-wedding-invitations</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 2.jpg|center]]	+	#Write each partner’s full name and title for a more modern style. The modern approach is listing each partner separately, even if they have the same last name. Precede each partner with “Mr.” or “Mrs.”, then list their full name. For example, “Mr. Alejandro Hernandez and Mrs. Tatiana Hernandez.”<ref>https://www.brides.com/story/how-to-address-your-wedding-invitations</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 2 Version 2.jpg|center]]
	#*To save room, it’s also acceptable to list them as “Mr. Alejandro and Mrs. Tatiana Hernandez.”		#*To save room, it’s also acceptable to list them as “Mr. Alejandro and Mrs. Tatiana Hernandez.”
	#*This also covers the possibility that the husband and wife have different last names, which is growing more common. Simply list each partner separately with their full title.		#*This also covers the possibility that the husband and wife have different last names, which is growing more common. Simply list each partner separately with their full title.
	#*Some brides hyphenate their last name to keep their maiden name but include their husband’s name as well. In this case, follow the same procedure and list each partner by their full name, like with “Mr. Brian Jackson and Mrs. Tiffany Brown-Jackson.”		#*Some brides hyphenate their last name to keep their maiden name but include their husband’s name as well. In this case, follow the same procedure and list each partner by their full name, like with “Mr. Brian Jackson and Mrs. Tiffany Brown-Jackson.”
−	#List the person that you’re closest to first if you don't know the couple equally. While it’s traditional to list the husband first on official invitations, it’s now appropriate to order the couple based on who you’re closer to. If you’re inviting your friend Sarah and her husband Chris, then the invitation can read, “Mrs. Sarah Rossi and Mr. Chris Rossi.” Use this style if you’re not grouping the husband and wife’s names.<ref> https://www.southernliving.com/weddings/how-to-address-wedding-invitations?slide=cb51544c-3743-4848-be9b-e87356031a0a#cb51544c-3743-4848-be9b-e87356031a0a</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 3.jpg|center]]	+	#List the person that you’re closest to first if you don't know the couple equally. While it’s traditional to list the husband first on official invitations, it’s now appropriate to order the couple based on who you’re closer to. If you’re inviting your friend Sarah and her husband Chris, then the invitation can read, “Mrs. Sarah Rossi and Mr. Chris Rossi.” Use this style if you’re not grouping the husband and wife’s names.<ref> https://www.southernliving.com/weddings/how-to-address-wedding-invitations?slide=cb51544c-3743-4848-be9b-e87356031a0a#cb51544c-3743-4848-be9b-e87356031a0a</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 3 Version 2.jpg|center]]
−	#Print each partner’s full name and title for a same-sex couple. Address invitations to same-sex couples the same way you’d address them to opposite-sex couples listed separately. Begin each partner with their proper title, followed by their full name.<ref>https://www.brides.com/story/how-to-address-your-wedding-invitations</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 4.jpg|center]]	+	#Print each partner’s full name and title for a same-sex couple. Address invitations to same-sex couples the same way you’d address them to opposite-sex couples listed separately. Begin each partner with their proper title, followed by their full name.<ref>https://www.brides.com/story/how-to-address-your-wedding-invitations</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 4 Version 2.jpg|center]]
	#*If the couple was Adam and Bruce Acheson, then address the envelope as “Mr. Adam and Mr. Bruce Acheson.” Use the same format for women, but with the title “Mrs.”		#*If the couple was Adam and Bruce Acheson, then address the envelope as “Mr. Adam and Mr. Bruce Acheson.” Use the same format for women, but with the title “Mrs.”
	#*Also list a same-sex couple starting with the partner that you’re closest with. If you’re equally close to them, then just go in alphabetical order.		#*Also list a same-sex couple starting with the partner that you’re closest with. If you’re equally close to them, then just go in alphabetical order.
−	#Use the preferred pronouns for trans or non-binary people. List trans or non-binary couples the same way that you’d list other couples, just with their preferred pronouns. Follow the pronoun with their full name.<ref>https://apracticalwedding.com/trans-non-binary-inclusive-wedding/</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 5.jpg|center]]	+	#Use the preferred pronouns for trans or non-binary people. List trans or non-binary couples the same way that you’d list other couples, just with their preferred pronouns. Follow the pronoun with their full name.<ref>https://apracticalwedding.com/trans-non-binary-inclusive-wedding/</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 5 Version 2.jpg|center]]
	#*Some trans people also change their first name to match their gender identity. In this case, make sure you use their adopted name rather than their birth name.		#*Some trans people also change their first name to match their gender identity. In this case, make sure you use their adopted name rather than their birth name.
	#*Some non-binary people prefer “Mx.” for their title as a gender-neutral term.<ref>https://ift.tt/2X1jysX>		#*Some non-binary people prefer “Mx.” for their title as a gender-neutral term.<ref>https://ift.tt/2X1jysX>
	#*If you aren’t sure about correct pronouns, you can always contact the couple and ask what they prefer. They’ll appreciate your inquiry and effort to include them.		#*If you aren’t sure about correct pronouns, you can always contact the couple and ask what they prefer. They’ll appreciate your inquiry and effort to include them.
−	#Write out the complete address without using any abbreviations. With both names and addresses, don’t use abbreviations on wedding invites. Spell out the whole address, without special signs or abbreviations.<ref>https://www.southernliving.com/weddings/how-to-address-wedding-invitations?slide=03fb0ab6-a23e-4500-8751-4e95993dfc11#03fb0ab6-a23e-4500-8751-4e95993dfc11</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 6.jpg|center]]	+	#Write out the complete address without using any abbreviations. With both names and addresses, don’t use abbreviations on wedding invites. Spell out the whole address, without special signs or abbreviations.<ref>https://www.southernliving.com/weddings/how-to-address-wedding-invitations?slide=03fb0ab6-a23e-4500-8751-4e95993dfc11#03fb0ab6-a23e-4500-8751-4e95993dfc11</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 6 Version 2.jpg|center]]
	#*For example, if an address is “152 7th Ave.,” write it out as “152 Seventh Avenue.” You can still use numerals for the house or apartment number is it's greater than 20. If it's less than 20, write it out as well.<ref>https://ift.tt/33ZBRQJ>		#*For example, if an address is “152 7th Ave.,” write it out as “152 Seventh Avenue.” You can still use numerals for the house or apartment number is it's greater than 20. If it's less than 20, write it out as well.<ref>https://ift.tt/33ZBRQJ>
	#*Also write out state names in full, rather than using abbreviations. Write “California” instead of “CA,” for example.		#*Also write out state names in full, rather than using abbreviations. Write “California” instead of “CA,” for example.
	===Writing the Inner Envelope===		===Writing the Inner Envelope===
−	#Send an inner envelope if you want to be more traditional. Inner envelopes are optional. The point is providing the invited couple with a fresh, clean envelope for display if the outer envelope gets damaged. If you want to provide a more traditional feeling, then send an inner envelope.<ref>https://www.marthastewartweddings.com/228650/addressing-and-mailing-your-wedding-invitations?slide=f9d79b72-86d6-4bfb-b1d9-b09fd1dec0e2#f9d79b72-86d6-4bfb-b1d9-b09fd1dec0e2</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 7.jpg|center]]	+	#Send an inner envelope if you want to be more traditional. Inner envelopes are optional. The point is providing the invited couple with a fresh, clean envelope for display if the outer envelope gets damaged. If you want to provide a more traditional feeling, then send an inner envelope.<ref>https://www.marthastewartweddings.com/228650/addressing-and-mailing-your-wedding-invitations?slide=f9d79b72-86d6-4bfb-b1d9-b09fd1dec0e2#f9d79b72-86d6-4bfb-b1d9-b09fd1dec0e2</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 7 Version 2.jpg|center]]
	#*The inner envelope is less formal than the front one and doesn't need any mailing information. Just include the couple's named, properly filled out.		#*The inner envelope is less formal than the front one and doesn't need any mailing information. Just include the couple's named, properly filled out.
	#*If you don't feel strongly about including an inner envelope, then you'll probably save money by leaving it out.		#*If you don't feel strongly about including an inner envelope, then you'll probably save money by leaving it out.
−	#Use first names on the inner envelope if you’re close to the couple. The inner envelope on wedding invitations is less formal than the front. If you know the couple well, then just use first names there, like “Michael and Kim,” rather than their proper titles. Also list them in the order that you listed them on the front envelope.<ref>https://www.brides.com/story/how-to-address-your-wedding-invitations</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 8.jpg|center]]	+	#Use first names on the inner envelope if you’re close to the couple. The inner envelope on wedding invitations is less formal than the front. If you know the couple well, then just use first names there, like “Michael and Kim,” rather than their proper titles. Also list them in the order that you listed them on the front envelope.<ref>https://www.brides.com/story/how-to-address-your-wedding-invitations</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 8 Version 2.jpg|center]]
	#*If you have a family relationship with the couple, you can use it on the inner envelope. For example, “Uncle Pat and Aunt Rosa.”		#*If you have a family relationship with the couple, you can use it on the inner envelope. For example, “Uncle Pat and Aunt Rosa.”
	#*If you’re not as close with the couple, then simple use “Mr. and Mrs.” for the inner envelope.		#*If you’re not as close with the couple, then simple use “Mr. and Mrs.” for the inner envelope.
−	#Include children on the inner envelope if they’re invited. Traditionally, the front envelope is only addressed to the parents. If you’re also inviting their children, then list them on the second line after their parents.<ref>https://www.marthastewartweddings.com/377903/how-to-address-wedding-invitation-envelopes?slide=5f22e61b-528b-45fe-8b55-6d2c9f7302e4#5f22e61b-528b-45fe-8b55-6d2c9f7302e4</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 9.jpg|center]]	+	#Include children on the inner envelope if they’re invited. Traditionally, the front envelope is only addressed to the parents. If you’re also inviting their children, then list them on the second line after their parents.<ref>https://www.marthastewartweddings.com/377903/how-to-address-wedding-invitation-envelopes?slide=5f22e61b-528b-45fe-8b55-6d2c9f7302e4#5f22e61b-528b-45fe-8b55-6d2c9f7302e4</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 9 Version 2.jpg|center]]
	#*If you’re being proper, then list the couple with their titles and last names, followed by the children. For example, “Mr. and Mrs. Dietrich, Sarah, John, and Shirley.” Otherwise, just use everyone’s first names.		#*If you’re being proper, then list the couple with their titles and last names, followed by the children. For example, “Mr. and Mrs. Dietrich, Sarah, John, and Shirley.” Otherwise, just use everyone’s first names.
	===Including Distinguished Titles===		===Including Distinguished Titles===
−	#List the person with the distinguished title first. Whether a person is a doctor, military member, judge, or another title, the partner with a title socially “outranks” the other. List them first, regardless of gender.<ref>https://www.marthastewartweddings.com/377903/how-to-address-wedding-invitation-envelopes?slide=4180c850-4f0e-430b-b27b-dd9bab56727d#4180c850-4f0e-430b-b27b-dd9bab56727d</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 10.jpg|center]]	+	#List the person with the distinguished title first. Whether a person is a doctor, military member, judge, or another title, the partner with a title socially “outranks” the other. List them first, regardless of gender.<ref>https://www.marthastewartweddings.com/377903/how-to-address-wedding-invitation-envelopes?slide=4180c850-4f0e-430b-b27b-dd9bab56727d#4180c850-4f0e-430b-b27b-dd9bab56727d</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 10 Version 2.jpg|center]]
	#*If both partners have a distinguished title, then list the person that you’re closest to first.		#*If both partners have a distinguished title, then list the person that you’re closest to first.
	#*The most common distinguished titles are Doctor or military ranks. Other titles are “The Honorable” for judges, “Reverend,” or “Professor.”		#*The most common distinguished titles are Doctor or military ranks. Other titles are “The Honorable” for judges, “Reverend,” or “Professor.”
−	#Spell out titles without abbreviations. Just like with addresses, the professional title shouldn’t contain abbreviations. Spell out the titles entirely on the front envelope. If you have an inner envelope, you can abbreviate the titles there.<ref>https://www.brides.com/story/how-to-address-your-wedding-invitations</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 11.jpg|center]]	+	#Spell out titles without abbreviations. Just like with addresses, the professional title shouldn’t contain abbreviations. Spell out the titles entirely on the front envelope. If you have an inner envelope, you can abbreviate the titles there.<ref>https://www.brides.com/story/how-to-address-your-wedding-invitations</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 11 Version 2.jpg|center]]
	#*If the titles and names are too long for one line, make a new line for the second partner and indent it.		#*If the titles and names are too long for one line, make a new line for the second partner and indent it.
−	#Order military service members according to their rank. If both partners are in the military but have different ranks, list them according to their rank, regardless of gender. For example, if one partner is a Lieutenant and one is a Colonel, the Colonel is listed first. Make the invitation out to “Colonel Rachael Jones and Lieutenant Alex Jones.”<ref>https://www.brides.com/story/how-to-address-your-wedding-invitations</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 12.jpg|center]]	+	#Order military service members according to their rank. If both partners are in the military but have different ranks, list them according to their rank, regardless of gender. For example, if one partner is a Lieutenant and one is a Colonel, the Colonel is listed first. Make the invitation out to “Colonel Rachael Jones and Lieutenant Alex Jones.”<ref>https://www.brides.com/story/how-to-address-your-wedding-invitations</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 12 Version 2.jpg|center]]
	#*It’s easy to find out which rank is higher. Just do an internet search for military ranks to find out.		#*It’s easy to find out which rank is higher. Just do an internet search for military ranks to find out.
	#*If the partners share the same rank, then list them based on who you’re closest with.		#*If the partners share the same rank, then list them based on who you’re closest with.
−	#Make the title plural if both partners have the same one. It’s common for some couples to share a title, like if both are doctors. In this case, you can make the title “Doctors” and list each partner’s full name after.<ref>https://www.brides.com/story/how-to-address-your-wedding-invitations</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 13.jpg|center]]	+	#Make the title plural if both partners have the same one. It’s common for some couples to share a title, like if both are doctors. In this case, you can make the title “Doctors” and list each partner’s full name after.<ref>https://www.brides.com/story/how-to-address-your-wedding-invitations</ref>[[Image:Address Wedding Invitations to a Married Couple Step 13 Version 2.jpg|center]]
	#*In a couple with 2 doctors, for example, write the card as, “Doctors Michael Sherman and Erica Sherman.”		#*In a couple with 2 doctors, for example, write the card as, “Doctors Michael Sherman and Erica Sherman.”
	#*This works for couples with the same military ranks as well. For example, "Sergeants Eric and Kaitlin Strasser."		#*This works for couples with the same military ranks as well. For example, "Sergeants Eric and Kaitlin Strasser."

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