If you just realized (to a certain degree of horror) that finding the perfect gift for the holidays also involves shopping for your mothe...

25 Clever Ideas For Gifts Your Mother-In-Law Will Adore

If you just realized (to a certain degree of horror) that finding the perfect gift for the holidays also involves shopping for your mother-in-law, then you're certainly not alone. The daunting task faced by many a kid-in-law across America requires striking a balance between sweet and appropriate without going overboard (but also without choosing something entirely underwhelming either). We've been there, and after putting together gift guides for everyone from the proud plant parent to the mom in need of some major R&R, we consider ourselves qualified enough to help you navigate these choppy shopping waters and land on the perfect present for your SO's mom, too.

Ask any married woman out there and she'll probably tell you that the relationship with her mother-in-law is something that grows and evolves with time, like a delicate flower or the latest iPhone technology. Getting her a little something that shows you understand her style and interests (or at least, that you're trying to) can go a long way. The good news is that you can't really go wrong — even if what you pick out isn't exactly suited to her personal taste, it's the effort and gesture that counts. Still, there are a number of definite crowd-pleasers that'll earn you serious points in the in-law arena this year, and we've rounded up a selection of them for your consideration. Whether you and your partner have been married for a while or you're new to the complex territory of being a daughter-in-law, here are a few clever gift ideas that have I love you like a mother-sort-of written all over them.

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Amy O Classic Pave Huggie Hoops


Whatever her personal style, these understated and delicate, hypoallergenic huggie hoops are guaranteed to please.

Amy O Jewelry Classic Pave Huggie Hoops, $, available at Amy O

Uniqlo Flannel Long-Sleeve Pajamas


Keep her cozy during the cold winter months with this classic flannel pajama set.

Uniqlo Flannel Long-Sleeve Pajamas, $, available at Uniqlo

Anthropologie Iris Rainbow Pot


For the mother-in-law that's also a proud plant parent, consider some beautifully handcrafted earthenware to house her seedlings.

Anthropologie Iris Rainbow Pot, $, available at Anthropologie

Great Jones Deep Cut Pan


Let her know how much you appreciate those top-secret family recipes she's let you in on with a sleek new pan from the popular Great Jones cookware brand. This option does the work of both a sauté pan and a skillet for ample culinary possibilities.


Great Jones Deep Cut Sauté Pan, $, available at Great Jones

The Bouqs Co. Mixed Bouquet


Because you simply can't go wrong with the delivery of a classic flower bouquet to brighten up anyone's day — especially if you've got no choice but to celebrate the holidays at a distance this year.

The Bouqs Co Love You Forever Bouquet, $, available at The Bouqs Co

Anthropologie Sadie Slippers


To really earn points in the in-law arena, go for the ultimate treat for her feet. This luxe, faux-fur pair of slippers is ideal for lazy Sunday mornings, evenings spent indoors, and everything in between.

Anthropologie Sadie Slippers, $, available at Anthropologie

Minted Gilt Agate Personalized Stationery


A gift with a personal touch is always a good idea.

Kaydi Bishop Gilt Agate Personalized Stationery, $, available at Minted

Winc 2-Month Subscription


For the woman that appreciates a good glass of wine, introduce her to an assortment of delicious blends to choose from on a monthly basis.

Winc 2-Month Subscription, $, available at Winc

Sweet Water Decor Spa Day Candle


Bring the spa to her with a candle that can transform her living room into the ultimate realm of relaxation.

Sweet Water Decor Spa Day Natural Candle, $, available at Amazon

SodaStream Fizzi Sparkling Water Maker


For the mother-in-law with all the gadgets, introduce a fun new addition to her collection with this sleek sparkling water maker. In addition to always having healthy, delicious drinks on hand, this machine helps to minimize the effects of single-use plastic pollution.

SodaStream Fizzi Sparkling Water Maker, $, available at Amazon

Rothy's Golden Gingham Mary Janes


These Duchess-approved, eco-friendly flats are comfortable, cute, and chic.

Rothy's Golden Gingham, $, available at Rothy's

Uniqlo Heattech Full-Size Blanket


As if this blanket doesn't already scream snuggle up — it also has moisture-absorbing, bio-warming, and insulating features to retain as much heat as possible, making it a real treat for the winter months.


Uniqlo Heattech Full-Size Blanket, $, available at Uniqlo

Drunk Elephant The Littles Set


If both you and Jennifer Anniston love Drunk Elephant, we're pretty sure your mother-in-law will too. Start her off with this kit featuring eight of the brand's bestsellers to mix for AM and PM skincare routines.

Drunk Elephant The Littles™, $, available at Sephora

Michael Kors Belted Wool Blend Trench Coat


An effortlessly stylish MIL will understand the sartorial power of an excellent trench.


Michael Kors Missy Belted Wool Blend Trench Coat, $, available at Nordstrom Rack

Ordinary Habit Migula Puzzle by Marleigh Culver


This new brand designs artful, beautifully made puzzles to help players reset and reconnect.

Ordinary Habit Migula Puzzle by Marleigh Culver, $, available at Ordinary Habit

lululemon Yin Poncho


Your mother-in-law will adore wrapping herself up in this extra layer of bamboo-meets-cashmere goodness that could work as both poncho and scarf.

lululemon Yin Poncho, $, available at lululemon

Akola Anasa DIY Necklace and Bracelet Kit


For the woman who's been flexing that DIY muscle over the past few months, this luxe bead kit will elevate her creativity to new heights. Think hand-rolled Karatasi beads embellished with a gold foil appliqué, an assortment of hand-carved horn charms, baroque pearl charms, and more to work with.

Akola Anasa DIY Necklace and Bracelet Kit, $, available at Akola

La Chatelaine Luxury Soap Collection


When your gift selection is Oprah-approved, you know you can't go wrong. These plant-based soaps are made in France and packaged in a seasonal gift tin that any recipient would appreciate.

La Chatelaine Luxury Soap Collection, $, available at Amazon

Gorjana Bali Antique Locket Necklace


Designed to look and feel like a family heirloom, this locket can hold up to two pictures of those dearest to your mother-in-law.

Gorjana Bali Antique Locket Necklace, $, available at Gorjana

DavidsTea Feel Good Teas Sampler


For the woman that loves tea and is in need of a little pick-me-up right now (aren't we all?), consider this colorful selection of loose leaf teas and infusions designed to help her relax, digest, energize, detox and beautify.

David's Tea Feel Good Teas 12 Tea Sampler, $, available at David's Tea

Phenomenal Woman Action Campaign T-Shirt


A 100% cotton t-shirt with a 100% sincere message to let your mother-in-law know just how admired she really is. You'll also supporting the critical work that's being done for women's rights on the ground by fearless organizations every day.

Phenomenal Woman Action Campaign Phenomenal Mother T-Shirt, $, available at Phenomenal Woman Action Campaign

Papier Recipe Cards


So she can collect and preserve recipes from the whole family (or keep track of recent lockdown culinary adventures).

Hoste by Laura Jackson Recipe Cards, $, available at Papier

Desmond & Dempsey The Cygnus Swan Eye Mask


Who wouldn't appreciate the gift of a good — and chic! — night's sleep?

Desmond & Dempsey The Cygnus Swan Print Eye Mask, $, available at Desmond & Dempsey

Peacesake Candles & Co. White Lavender Room and Linen Spray


This earth-friendly, relaxing room spray will freshen up any space (or even the inside of a face mask!) with the combined — and divine — aroma of lavender, bergamot and eucalyptus, cypress pine and birch.  

Peacesake Candles & Co. White Lavender Room and Linen Spray, $, available at Madewell

Lovely Earthlings Holiday Stocking Set of Cards


Sometimes simply finding the right words to put in a themed greeting card is more than enough for the sentimental recipient.

LovelyEarthlings Holiday Stocking Set of Cards, $, available at Etsy

Vuori Performance Jogger


For the MIL adjusting to WFH, consider a pair of soft and slim joggers with a relaxed fit that are sure to become her go-to garment.

Vuori Performance Jogger, $, available at Vuori

Oribe Gold Lust Repair & Restore Shampoo


Give her the gift of good hair with this rejuvenating cleanser that reawakens hair to its glossiest, healthiest prime — this is especially relevant for those locks that have lost their luster in quarantine.

Oribe Gold Lust Repair & Restore Shampoo, $, available at Nordstrom

Westman Atelier Lip Suede


For the mother-in-law that knows her way around the beauty aisle, she'll absolutely appreciate this super-nourishing, super-clean lip color from the covetable Westman Atelier makeup line.

Westman Atelier Lip Suede, $, available at goop

BaubleBar Ball Huggie Hoops


Whatever her personal style, these understated and delicate, hypoallergenic gold-plated huggie hoops are guaranteed to please.

BaubleBar Ball Huggie Hoops, $, available at BaubleBar

WineSociety 3-Pack Signature Premium Wine


For the woman that appreciates a good glass of wine, introduce her to an assortment of canned blends and she may never go back to the old cork and bottle. 

Winesociety 3-Pack Signature Premium Wine, $, available at Winesociety

I And Love And You Fanny Pack


Celebrate the mother-in-laws out there that' are also proud pet parents with the ultimate dog walking accessory. In addition to receiving this cute storage spot for snacks and pet knick-knacks, your mother-in-law will get a sweet greeting card made by Neighborly.



I and love and you The Fanny Pack, $, available at I and love and you

Monastery Lapiz Matte Body Oil


Considering this is your mother-in-law we're talking about, you can go a bit over the top this year with an extravagant body oil she's guaranteed to love.

Monastery Lapiz Matte Body Oil, $, available at Monastery

Tkees Ines Shearling Slipper


To really earn points in the in-law arena, for the ultimate treat on her feet. These ultra-luxe slippers can be worn inside or outside — ideal for life on lockdown.

TKEES Ines Shearling Slipper, $, available at Tkees

Hästens Pure White Collection - Sheets


For Scandinavian simplicity at its best (and by "best" we mean "most luxurious"), Hästens Pure White sheets are made from the finest linens to ensure your mother-in-law enjoys sweet dreams and deep sleep.

Hästens Hästens Pure White Collection - Sheets, $, available at Boston Luxury Beds

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