Valentine's Day is an excellent chance to celebrate the love shared between best friends — because, let's be honest, the best frie...

23 Best Friend Valentine’s Day Gifts That Say “I Love You (Platonically)”

Valentine's Day is an excellent chance to celebrate the love shared between best friends — because, let's be honest, the best friendships tend to outlast romantic relationships (it's best friends 4evr, after all). If flicks like Bridesmaids or Booksmart have taught us anything, it's that the platonic loves in our lives are always worth celebrating.

So this year, we suggest not limiting yourself and instead seizing V-Day as an opportunity to celebrate the BFFs you cherish: the ones who are on-call during bad dates, who never fail to make you LOL in your group text, who have seen you at your very worst and still love you unconditionally. If you’re in the market for some best friend gifts for your nearest and dearest homies, look no further because we’ve rounded up some options that will put a smile on your ride-or-die’s face come February 14th.

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Rowan Bestie Charm


Skip the friendship bracelet and go for a unique bestie earring charm instead. Although the hoops are not included, if your friend has a spare set of huggies lying around or even a spare necklace chain, they’ll appreciate the extra gem. 

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Rowan Bestie Charm, $, available at Rowan

Maude Vibe + Shine


Listen, not all BFF giftees are single. But, if they are riding solo this year, give them this sexual wellness kit equipped with Maude’s best-selling (and beginner-friendly if they’re new to the sex toy space) vibrator and organic, aloe-based lube. 

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Maude vibe + shine, $, available at Sephora

OmgSweetShop Valentines Pastel Conversation Heart Hot Cocoa Bombs


Hot chocolate bombs are one of those viral treats we've decided can stick around long after its Tiktok stardom has waned. Instead of DIY-ing, however, leave it up to the experts for something that looks as good as it tastes. These pastel-hued milk chocolate bombs feature a white chocolate drizzle and conversation hearts for edible, cutesy decor. As for the inside, you'll find premium hot cocoa powder and marshmallows that make a decadent concoction when mixed with steaming milk.

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SweetsbySana Valentine’s Day Heart Mini Cocoa Bombs, $, available at Etsy

Crocs The Trendy Pack


"Ugly-cute" shoes are something only a bestie can gift — and we think this Crocs kit is the way to go. They'll enjoy a trendy pair of platform Crocs, five groovy widgets, and three pairs of colorful ruffle socks.

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Crocs The Trendy Pack, $, available at Crocs

Quince Mongolian Cashmere Crewneck Sweater


For the bougie besties in need of a little TLC, treat them to a cozy cashmere crewneck — which, currently only retails for $50 over at Quince.

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Quince Mongolian Cashmere Crewneck Sweater, $, available at Quince

Laundry Day Tanjun Pipe


For the toker pal, this discreet pipe is not only a vessel for body-mind relaxation but also doubles as beautiful table or shelf decor.

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Laundry Day Honey Tanjun Pipe, $, available at Laundry Day

Haand Cloudware Mug


North Carolina-based ceramics brand Haand makes super-durable, restaurant-quality pottery with a hand-hewn feel. We love this marbled mug as a gift for a far-flung pal — they’ll think of you every time they sip their wake-up beverage of choice.

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Haand Cloudware Mug (Short), $, available at Haand

Joomra Pillow Slippers


True friends give the gift of cloud-like comfort (plus quick-drying EVA).

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Joomra Pillow Slippers, $, available at Amazon

KITTYOUTH Pearl Gold Hoops


Amazon is surprisingly a goldmine for stunning, inexpensive jewelry — look around and you'll also find hidden under-$20 gems, like these reader-favorite pearl earrings.

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KITTYOUTH Baroque Pearl Drop Earrings 18K Gold, $, available at Amazon

Yui Brooklyn Heart Skewer Shaped Candle


If your love for your bestie burns bright, then this candle of stacked hearts should do the trick.

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Yui Brooklyn Yui Brooklyn Heart Skewer Shaped Candle, $, available at Urban Outfitters

Usual Wines Mixed Pack


Award-winning wines in aesthetically-pleasing triangular bottles are as crowd-pleasing as it gets. If the crowd is 21+, that is. The Mixed Pack includes a red, rosé, and brut all made from yummy, sustainably farmed grapes.

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USUAL Mixed Pack, $, available at Usual Wines

MorfJewelryNewYork (Set of 2) Hug Rings


It's all about the hug life: Keep one ring for yourself, gift the other to someone who you love to embrace.

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MorfJewelryNewYork Set of 2 Hug Rings, $, available at Etsy

Fujifilm INSTAX Film Variety Pack


If your bud is obsessed with their instant camera, they’re probably always running out of film. They will definitely appreciate a backup stash, especially one that contains a mixed bag of specialty films, including a rainbow-gradient border and a monochrome option.

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Fujifilm INSTAX Mini Film Variety Pack, $, available at Urban Outfitters

Lisa Says Gah Pretzel Hoops


So you and your BFF are exchanging gifts — but you're not really the lovey-dovey type. Go for a set of kooky-yet-chic pretzel hoop earrings that scream "I love you" in their own unique, gluten-y way.

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Lisa Says Gah Pretzel Hoops, $, available at Lisa Says Gah

Kule Sexy Socks


Treat your BFF's feet to the ultimate luxury: a ridiculously cute pair of bold socks they'd never spend the money on themselves.

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Kule Sexy Sock, $, available at Kule

RP Minis The Screaming Goat (Figurine and Book)


The screaming goat might be one of the earliest viral videos on the internet, dating all the way back to 2007. Perhaps as old as your friendship with your best pal? Either way, this goofy gift will definitely put a smile on their face.

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RP Minis The Screaming Goat (Figurine and Book Set), $, available at Amazon

Silver Buffalo Friends Central Perk To-Go Cups Ceramic Salt & Pepper Shaker


For the friend who's always making you dinner... for free. Repay them with a thoughtful set of shakers.

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Silver Buffalo Friends Central Perk Salt & Pepper Shaker, $, available at Amazon

Global Goods Partners Handmade Felt Daisy


A daisy is just one of the flowers to choose from in Food52’s array of sweet felted flora. Whichever bloom you choose, it will be a pretty present that will deliver daily cheer as it lives in perpetuity on your best pal’s windowsill.

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Global Goods Partners Handmade Felt Daisy, $, available at Food52

Kosasport Lipfuel


The one beauty staple that your Kosas-loyal giftee may not have in their arsenal is the brand’s luxurious LipFuel — a shopping-team-approved balm that hydrates and protects the lips.

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Kosasport LipFuel, $, available at Kosas

Uncommon Goods Cold Can Coats


While these are technically listed as “beer coats,” we don’t think the use of these teeny-tiny toppers should be limited to brewskis. They’ll chill any canned drink in style, including your best friend’s midday LaCroix or Friday afternoon Recess.

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Uncommon Goods Cold Can Coats, $, available at Uncommon Goods

Squirrel and Bunny Shop Mac and Cheese Keychain Set


Is this person the cheese to your macaroni? Well, look no further than this perfectly paired keychain set. The only issue we foresee is deciding which you get to keep and which one to give to your best bud. We highly recommend checking out this seller’s Etsy shop — there are many other food pairings to choose from, like milk and cookies, ’smores, and two halves of an avocado.

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Squirrel and Bunny Shop Mac and Cheese Keychain Set, $, available at Etsy

Olive & June The Poppy


Help your Val-pal achieve a salon-quality manicure at home for way less coin. Olive & June also offers The Poppy, a grippy, wide-surface handle that can attach to any existing bottle of polish, making brush-maneuvering a total breeze.

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Olive & June The Poppy, $, available at Olive & June

Uncommon Goods De-Stress Gift Set




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Uncommon Goods De-Stress Gift Set, $, available at Uncommon Goods

iBetterLife Mushroom LED Night Light [2-Pack]


Are mushrooms still having a moment? Let's hope so — because these color-changing LED night lights are too cute not to share with your faves.

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iBetterLife Mushroom LED Night Light [2-Pack], $, available at Amazon

Los Angeles Apparel Zodiac Scarf


Surely your friend will relate! Here's a super long scarf that represents all 12 zodiac signs, ensuring that your gift recipient — no matter who they are — will feel seen.

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Los Angeles Apparel Zodiac Scarf, $, available at Los Angeles Apparel

Homesick Four Twenty Candle


A cannabis-scented candle for the long-distance pal whom you can't toke up with on the regular.

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Homesick Four Twenty Candle, $, available at Homesick

Mean Girls-Inspired Burn Book Journal


Sometimes, a friendship flourishes because of the shared enemies between two people. This journal honors those special bonds.

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Regina George Mean Girls-Inspired Burn Book Journal, $, available at Amazon

Jelly Belly Conversation Beans


The best jelly bean company in the world has declared that conversations hearts are over. This year, we're passing along the memo that conversation jelly beans are where it's at.

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Jelly Belly Jelly Belly Conversation Beans® - 7.5 oz Gift Bag, $, available at Jelly Belly

NameArtWorld Personalized Name On Rice Jewelry


IYKYK — this one's a real throwback for Y2K-era teens. You have your choice of a necklace or keychain that features a personalized grain of rice that lives inside a vial of oil. For more flair, opt for one that allows you to add beads or dye to the oil.

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NameArtWorld Personalized Name On Rice Jewelry, $, available at Etsy

The Gift of Tarot Pack of Three Envelopes


Each three-pack comes with a set of three random tarot cards and represents a past, present, and future state. Gift one to each of your three besties who are seeking mind-expanding experiences.

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Arwen Lynch The Gift of Tarot Pack of Three Envelopes, $, available at Amazon

The Sill Hoya Heart Plant


This precious little succulent in the shape of a heart is the epitome of the "tears welling up" emoji. Best of all, it's easy to take care of and is safely delivered already tucked into its cute-as-a-button planter.

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The Sill Hoya Heart, $, available at The Sill

Mario Badescu Facial Spray


Beauty gifts can be tricky, but one gift that always lands is a facial misting spray in a calming scent. Mario Badescu's sprays are a perfect midday pick-me-up. Tell your best pal to keep this spray bottle at their WFH desk for an instant refresher.

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Mario Badescu Facial Spray, $, available at Nordstrom

Nordstrom Snuggle Plush Faux Fur Slipper


An under-$20 luxurious find is great, especially if you're shopping for the whole text thread.

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Nordstrom Snuggle Plush Faux Fur Slipper, $, available at Nordstrom

We Are Knitters Braided Soumak Kit


This crafty Spain-based brand makes even the toughest of knitting projects feel doable thanks to the wealth of tutorials that they offer on their site as well as easy-to-follow instructions that accompany their kits. We Are Knitters also offer packages for beginners in embroidery, crochet, macrame, and weaving, like this sublime, easy-to-DIY wall hanging.

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We Are Knitters Braided Soumak Kit, $, available at We Are Knitters

Mejuri Daily Ear Cuff


This sweet little ear cuff doesn't require a piercing. Simply slip it on for an everyday accessory that still adds a touch of elegance.

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Mejuri Daily Ear Cuff, $, available at Mejuri

Stone and Strand Cotton Candy Amazonite Bestie Bracelet


This cute and unique take on the cord friendship bracelet also feels grown-up. Get one for each of you to wear.

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Stone and Strand Cotton Candy Amazonite Bestie Bracelet, $, available at Stone and Strand

CustomBridalGifts Heart Sunglasses


Perfect for group selfies on Galentine's day and beyond.

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CustomBridalGifts Heart Sunglasses Party Favors, $, available at Etsy

Madewell Heartbreak Friendship Necklace Set


This insanely charming BFF necklace set gives ultimate '90s throwback vibes — and we think you ought to bring it back with your #1.

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Madewell Heartbreak Friendship Necklace Set, $, available at Nordstrom Rack

Elorea Discovery Set


Your K-pop-loving pal will swoon over this unique fragrance sampler set, featuring scents sourced from Korea like Jeju lime, Bosung green tea, and Goheung cypress.

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Elorea Discovery Set, $, available at Elorea

Valentine’s Day Fortune Cookies


A very reasonable option if you’d like to dole out a gaggle of little gifts to multiple pals — 50 of these romantically-tinted fortune cookies clock in under $10.

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Oriental Trading Valentine’s Day Fortune Cookies (50 Pieces), $, available at Oriental Trading

The Finer Cookie Bacon Fat Gingersnaps


These smoky snaps combine the sweetness of ginger with the umami goodness of bacon — and they’ll likely last about two minutes once they land on your bestie’s doorstep.

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The Finer Cookie Bacon Fat Gingersnaps (6 Cookies), $, available at The Finer Cookie

Patchology All The Feels Masks Kit


Your bestie’s skin — like their winning personality — is multi-dimensional, and a one-trick mask won’t suffice. Patchology’s set contains three masks — one to clear up blemishes, one to promote a healthy glow, and one to hydrate — in addition to a set of rejuvenating eye gels.

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Patchology All The Feels Masks Kit, $, available at Free People

Thisworks Deep Sleep Pillow Spray


Is your closest pal always chasing sleep? This pillow spray is blended with a relaxing blend of essential oils and will make for a sublime drift-off experience.

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This Works Deep Sleep Pillow Spray, $, available at Anthropologie

Sew Goodness Co. Upcycled Sweater Mittens


You’ve been pinging Bernie memes back and forth since inauguration day, making each other cackle with images of the Vermont politician starring in Steel Magnolias or sitting at the merch table. Your Val-pal will freak out when you present them with a pair of one-of-a-kind upcycled dad-core mittens à la Senator Sanders.

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Sew Goodness Co. Upcycled Sweater Mittens, $, available at Etsy

Noah’s Ark Pink Floral Tiffin


True, a to-go container isn’t the sexiest gift — but when it’s as beautifully designed as one of these artisan-made tiffins, it becomes a present that’s both gorgeous and practical. Send this to your bestest bestie — she can pack it with treats for that socially distant picnic that you’re planning for the spring.

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Noah's Ark Pink Floral Tiffin, $, available at GlobeIn

Stojo Collapsible Cup


Another picnic-preparation gift: Stojo’s collapsible cup, perfect for hauling everything from water to coffee to wine.

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Stojo Collapsible Cup, $, available at Stojo

“Floret’s Farm A Year In Flowers” by Erin Benzakein


If even they aren’t an aspiring florist, your best pal will love the beautiful and inspiring photographs in Floret Farm’s guide to flower arranging. Who knows, maybe it will prompt their next quarantine hobby?

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Chronicle Books Floret Farm’s A Year In Flowers, $, available at Chronicle Books

Olive & June Pedi System Tool Box


This all-in-one pedicure kit is a splurge, but if your best bud is strictly quarantining and hasn’t been to a salon in months, Olive & June’s DIY system is nothing short of a godsend. Along with the usual suspects (nail clippers, file, and buffer), the nail-care brand offers a foot file to smooth rough skin, a softening serum, and cuticle tools to tame unruly nail beds. The kicker is the one piece of equipment we probably all need the most: the Posey, a patented plastic wedge for positioning your tootsies at a paintable angle.

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Olive & June The Pedi System (Tool Box), $, available at Olive & June

D&C Manufacturing Loop Sunburst Rattan Mirror


This petite piece of boho decor is just the right size for an overlooked nook. Measuring a little larger than a dinner plate, it could be hung on a sliver of wall space or even be propped up on a desktop and will make a sunny addition to your best bud’s WFH setup.

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D&C Manufacturing Loop Sunburst Rattan Mirror, $, available at GlobeIn

Candace Wiant “Peachy II” Print


If you happen to know that your bestie is in the market for some decor on a larger scale, we suggest checking out the affordable art website Juniper. They offer a wealth of unframed prints (primarily from female artists!) in multiple sizes (everything from 16” x 20” all the way up to 55” x 79”). There’s also the option for a super-affordable digital download so you can gift your pal something museum-worthy for the mere cost of museum admission.

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Candace Wiant Peachy II (16” x 20” Print), $, available at Juniper

BaubleBar Jupiter Initial Necklace


You both still obsessively troll eBay and Vestiaire Collective for a deal on the bamboo initial pendant of the “Old Cèline” era — and while this BaubleBar necklace is most certainly not it, it sort of scratches the same itch, no?

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BaubleBar Jupiter Initial Necklace, $, available at BaubleBar

The Jonsteen Company Grow-a-Tree Kit


If your best pal is lucky enough to have a shred of outdoor space, they may enjoy cultivating their very own tree — even if it’s just on a fire escape. The Grommet offers mighty options like sequoias and redwoods along with a selection of evergreen trees — but don’t worry, they all start small.

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The Jonsteen Company Grow-a-Tree Kit, $, available at The Grommet

Necessaire Eucalyptus Body Exfoliator


Believe the hype: This clean skincare brand’s invigorating, exfoliating eucalyptus body was is everything it’s cracked up to be. “Love! Love! Love!” exclaimed on-site reviewer Jennifer. “A MUST ORDER. I’m already contemplating my next purchase.” With bamboo charcoal, pumice, and lactic acid, it contains a wealth of smoothing and brightening ingredients to enhance the skin of your nearest and dearest and bring some spa vibes to their morning routine.

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Nécessaire The Body Exfoliator, $, available at Nécessaire

Lovepot Lovestoned VDay Dried Bouquet


Have you and your best pal logged many friendship hours with Mary Jane? While a floral bouquet may seem like a fusty choice for your nearest and dearest, Lovepot’s cosmic arrangement is an exception — in addition to dried flora, it boasts fresh, smokeable CBD “flower”, making it the perfect gift for any bud (!) that appreciates reefer.

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Lovepot Lovestoned VDay Dried Bouquet, $, available at Lovepot

Masha Apparel Tie Dye Bamboo Socks


These super-soft, sweat-wicking bamboo socks get high marks for both trendiness and comfort. Your best bud will approve, whether they’re wearing these colorful accessories around the house or hitting the trail for a multi-mile hike.

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Masha Apparel Tie Dye Bamboo Socks, $, available at Amazon

Tony’s Chocolonely Milk Chocolate Bar


Sure, chocolate makes for a traditional Valentine’s Day gift — and your social-good-minded pal will definitely appreciate a bar made from Fair Trade-certified cacao beans. Be sure to peruse the entire selection — flavors range from classic milk chocolate to caramel sea salt.

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Tony's Chocolonely Milk Chocolate Bar, $, available at World Market

Sardel x Roscioli Pasta Kit


Pro tip: this is a great gift for a best friend that you live with, so that you can reap the benefit of a home-cooked Mediterranean meal. Italian cookware brand Sardel partnered with Rome’s Roscioli, one of the city’s best-loved restaurants, to source top-quality ingredients from all over Italy — olive oil from Lazio, tomato sauce from Puglia, and rustic spaghetti from Umbria — to create a simple but utterly sublime meal kit.

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Sardel x Roscioli Roscioli Pasta Kit, $, available at Sardel

CHUNGAWAWA Ivy White Daisy Earrings


Your DMs with this person are filled with posts from indie retailer Lisa Says Gah, detailed with comments like “NEED”, “I think you need this!”, and “Do I need this?” They will appreciate any gift from the shop’s colorful inventory — and these oversize daisy earrings are vibrant enough to match their sunny personality.

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CHUNGAWAWA Ivy White Daisy Earrings, $, available at Lisa Says Gah

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