Long-distance relationships are hard. There's no denying that it can be a struggle for even the best partners to deal with the miles b...

These 13 App-Controlled Vibrators Will Get You Through Your LDR

Long-distance relationships are hard. There's no denying that it can be a struggle for even the best partners to deal with the miles between them, especially when it comes to sex. Yes, of course, we know the joys of sexting and FaceTime dates, but it's not the same as your paramour having a literal hand in helping you get to your orgasm.

Luckily, technology is ever-evolving, and there is now an entire category of sex toys that are pretty much made for people in LDRs. Enter: app-controlled vibrators. In our tech-advanced world, it's no surprise that many sex toys now connect to smartphone apps that can be controlled from anywhere in the world. And although you and your partner may not physically be together, there's something undeniably sexy about handing over the controls to your pleasure.

Our one small caveat: because these vibes fall under the category of sex tech, they're more of a splurge than your typical toy. But, hey, if they're for both of you... why not split the cost? Or splurge for a long-distance anniversary? The options are endless to help you and your person relieve your LDR-induced stress and separation anxiety.

Ahead, check out the best app-connected sex toys that will help keep you satisfied long after you've reunited.

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Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator


This best-seller connects to the Lovense app to distribute rumbling clitoral and G-spot stimulation from anywhere in the world. Boasting nearly five hours of playtime, it'll rarely need a recharge, either.

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Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator, $, available at Lovehoney

We-Vibe Chorus


This waterproof vibrator comes with a remote control, so you or your partner can operate it while you're in the same vicinity. But there's also a smartphone app for long-distance use, which allows you to operate the vibrator in real time.

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We-Vibe Chorus App and Remote Controlled Rechargeable Couple's, $, available at Lovehoney

OhMiBod Esca 2


Orgasm via your partner's Apple Watch! This vibrator is great for both solo and remote partner play that pays special attention to the G-spot. Turn it on manually or in Bluetooth mode with the OhMiBod remote app for a three-hour marathon of play time.

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OhMiBod Esca 2, $, available at Walmart

Mystery Vibe Crescendo 2


This top-selling, bendy vibe is super-versatile, making it perfect for ~experimentation~ while your beau is abroad. Discover what you like together when you pair it with the Mystery Vibe app (and fire up FaceTime).

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Mystery Vibe Crescendo 2, $, available at Mystery Vibe

Ohmibod Club Vibe 2.Oh


This top-selling vibrating panty can be set so that the vibrator works off of sound. The vibrations are keyed to the overall volume of the music. So next time you're on a call with your partner, choose the playlist and volume to get them going. And if you're a little closer to the receiving end of these vibes, you can use the mic in the remote control to set the vibe off, too.

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OhMiBod Club Vibe 2.Oh!, $, available at Adam and Eve

Je Joue Dua G-Spot Vibrator


This app-enabled G-spot and clitoral vibe allows you (or your partner) to create a custom session of slowed-down or sped-up pleasure sensations that you can save (and repeat) whenever you want.



Je Joue Dua, $, available at Ella Paradis

Zalo Queen Warming G-Spot Vibrator & Suction Sleeve


The Zalo Queen vibrator set comes with two pleasure parts, one basic shaft and an additional sleeve for those who want to quickly transform their toy into a suction vibrator (because two sensations are definitely better than one, right?). The primary shaft has warming technology and 64 different combos to hit your G-spot (again, and again) with the added bonus of a suctioned sleeve. Use the Zalo remote app to pleasure your partner anywhere in the world.

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Zalo Queen Set G-spot PulseWave Vibrator with Suction Sleeve, $, available at Zalo

Lovense Domi 2 Mini Wand Vibrator


Thanks to this wand vibrator's smartphone app, you can control the vibration level from a long distance and even sync it to your music if you'd like. At 10 inches long, it's definitely a bulkier vibrator, so keep that in mind if you're looking for something discreet.

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Lovense Domi 2 Wand Massager, $, available at Amazon

Lioness Smart Bluetooth Vibrator


Dreamed up by two UC Berkeley engineers, the Lioness's mission is to totally change how women get off. Like an Apple Watch for your vagina, the Lioness tracks your body's reactions to its sensor-activated shaft on its app, so you can keep up to speed on what conditions, positions, turn-ons, and motions help you reach orgasm. If you and your partner are addicted to data and spreadsheets, this is the toy for you.

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Lioness Smart Bluetooth Vibrator, $, available at Uncommon Goods

We-Vibe Ditto


If anal is on the menu, we've got you covered. A little bit of remote controlled anal play comes courtesy of the We-Vibe Ditto, which has a tapered tip and rumbling motor to slip in easy and stimulate with power. It's both waterproof and compatible with water-based lubes, and it's able to be used from a distance with the We-Connect app.

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We-Vibe Ditto Rechargeable Remote and App Control Vibrating But, $, available at Lovehoney

Svakom Ella Love Egg Vibrator


Don't be fooled by how demure this little bullet looks. It has 11 different vibration modes that will take you to new levels. It's also waterproof and whisper-quiet, so you can use it in all kinds of daring places. It's controlled by an app, so your SO can tease you from afar.

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Svakom Ella Neo App Controlled Rechargeable Textured Love Egg, $, available at Lovehoney

Vibease Bluetooth Erotica Rechargeable Responsive Panty Vibrator


Avid literotica readers will appreciate this vibrator, which strategically syncs its vibrations with an erotic audiobook. You and your partner can both get one, and swap suggestions for what to listen to next. It's like a book club, but different.

Unbranded Vibease Bluetooth Erotica Rechargeable Responsive Panty Vibrator, $, available at Lovehoney

Lovense Hush


If you and your partner have a shared sex playlist going, you'll appreciate this butt plug, which will vibrate in time with music through the corresponding app.

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Lovense Hush 2 Slim App Controlled Rechargeable Anal Plug, $, available at Lovehoney

We-Vibe Melt Clitoral Vibrator


We understand how hard it can be to be away from your partner...and their mouth. If you've been craving an oral sex toy to fill the void, this clit stimulator is the next best thing. Pair it with We-Vibe's app to let your partner take the reins from near or far.

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We-Vibe Melt App Controlled Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator, $, available at Lovehoney

Kiiroo Pearl 2 Interactive Vibrator


This extra-smooth, totally waterproof vibrator is proud to enable what it calls "Teledildonics — Internet-connected sex via high-tech toys" with its FeelMe technology. Not only does the Pearl 2 respond to other devices, but it transmits to them as well. It's motion-touch sensitive and useable on a remote level through the FeelMe app.

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Ohmibod Lovelife Rev Finger Vibrator


This waterproof finger vibrator was designed with special care to accessibility. The single, large button makes for easy control of its five different pulse modes. At 2.4 inches in length and 2.5 in width, it's also a great on-the-go-toy. It's fully App control enabled, so great for both solo and distanced partner play.

OhMiBod Ohmibod Lovelife Rev Finger Vibrator, $, available at Adam and Eve

We-Vibe Wand Massager


If you're on the market for a hefty foot long vibrator, you're going to want it to be ergonomic. The We-Vibe is designed with your capacity for hand-cramping in mind, has 10 different functions, can be controlled from a distance with the We-Connect app.

We-Vibe Wand, $, available at Ella Paradis

OhMiBod Fuse Interactive


This high-tech take on the rabbit vibe can be paired with other devices via the FeelMe app to share a hot-and-heavy experience with your partner no matter where each party is.



OhMiBod Fuse Interactive, $, available at Lovelife

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