It's not a huge surprise that replicating the feel of oral sex isn't easily accomplished. When a partner goes down on you, they're able to control the movements of their mouth to go faster or slower. They can switch between all kinds of sensations: sucking, pulling, licking — even teeth can get in the mix. And most importantly, a tongue is generally both wet and warm, not the easiest sensation for a toy to recreate — but, thanks to ever-evolving technology, we're edging closer. From newfangled tongue vibrators to the viral rose to the best sex toys on Amazon, we've pulled the top-rated oral sex toys that have customers shouting for more.
While we can't promise that any of the following toys will feel exactly like oral sex, we can say that (according to very pleased internet reviewers) they come pretty damn close. Ahead, browse the 25 best oral sex toys out there, according to reviewers.
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Phanxy Clitoral Licking Tongue Vibrator
This Amazon fav has skyrocketed in popularity these last few months, along with searches for "tongue vibrators" and to say that we get it is an understatement. This oral sex-simulating toy will give you something you've only dreamed of — tongue flicking, circling, and sucking sensations—that can be felt while completely submerged underwater. Not to mention, it's one of the best oral sex toys for a budget price: Under $30.
"This is the BEST toy I've ever used in my life," one effusive reviewer raves. "I've always wanted something that mimicked oral when I'm away from my partner and... This thing is something I cannot even describe. It literally feels like an alien was gently licking and violating my clit with some alien-like vibrations from its tongue. The vibrations aren't like a typical vibration either. They are so tickly and toe-curling. When you turn on the vibration, it actually feels even more like oral."
The Hype: 4.2 out of 5 stars and 2,162 reviews
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Phanxy Clitoral Licking Tongue Vibrator, $, available at Amazon
plusOne Fluttering Arouser
R29 shoppers are already fans of plusOne's super-powered wands, but did you know its clitoral toys also include oral sex simulators? This fluttering tongue vibe uses 10 intensities to flick your clit into orgasmic oblivion.
"This little guy is over the top amazing! I had one of the most mind-blowing O’s of my life! I also had multiple O’s which is not common for me," writes one satisfied customer. "I’m not saying that this little guy is magic. I’m just saying if Cinderella’s fairy Godmother had given her this instead of glass slippers she would not have needed a prince to be swept away. If my Fair Godmother is listening hint, hint jab jab."
The Hype: 4.3 out of 5 stars and 233 reviews
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plusOne fluttering arouser, $, available at plusOne
Tracy's Dog Licky Tongue Vibrator
Though Licky might not look like much at first glance, this power-packing handheld device will have you writhing and shaking with pleasure. With 10 intensities, the vibrator lives up to its name, licking your clit with a back-and-forth flickering motion that (especially when combined with lube) gives a realistic tongue feel.
"So much pleasure! WOW... really packs a punch," writes a reviewer. "I was and continue to be surprised and pleased with the end result."
The Hype: 4.6 out of 5 stars and 11 reviews
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Tracy's Dog Licky Tongue Vibrator, $, available at tracy's dog
Zalo Eve Oral Pleasure Vibrator
Using dual motors and lifelike liquid silicone, Eve takes tongue vibrators to the next level. If you're looking for a real-feel oral sex toy, check out Eve's heating function, which warms up to emulate the feel of a mouth. We also love how the second motor in the tip of the "tongue" is able to further enhance the oral sex sensation. Eve is brand new to Zalo's lineup and doesn't have any reviews yet, but having tried it out ourselves, we can guarantee it's worth your while.
The Hype: Be the first to review!
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Zalo Eve Oral Pleasure Vibrator, $, available at Zalo
Satisfyer Pro 2
The Satisfyer Pro 2 is one of the internet's highest-rated sex toys (and with over 59,000 reviews, that means a LOT). The magic lies in its patented Air Pulse Technology that achieves "touch-free" stimulation meant to imitate oral. This best-seller is one of the best budget oral sex toys, too. If you're one of the few who haven't pulled the trigger on this oral sex toy sensation, now's the time. It's currently at its lowest price (under $30!) since Black Friday.
"The best way I can explain it is that you create this 'vacuum' by creating the seal around your most sensitive bits, and then there’s something inside that vibrates just above the clitoris but doesn’t touch it," explains one satisfied reviewer. "The suction, combined with the motion, it’s a very unique feeling. It’s amazing." The vibrator comes equipped with a soft silicone tip that surrounds the clitoris and, when turned on, releases gentle pulsating pressure waves.
The Hype: 4.2 out of 5 stars and 58,996 reviews
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Satisfyer Pro 2 Air Pulse Clitoral Stimulator, $, available at Amazon
Proprogift Clitoral Sucking Licking Vibrator
While it's difficult to really mimic the feel of a tongue (you know, one that your partner can move around in different patterns and speeds), many toys do a decent job with the help of soft silicone. This tongue vibrator has a licking extension in the center for clitoral stimulation and then a larger cup around for suction.
"I was really surprised at how soft the tongue was," writes one reviewer. "It was super nice compared to others I have used, as well as how it moves in a more circular motion.
The Hype: 4.3 out of 5 stars and 755 reviews
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Propogift Clitoral Sucking Vibrator, $, available at Amazon
Smile Makers The French Lover
Tongue vibrators are the new who's who of the oral-sex-toy world, and if you're looking for a sure thing, don't miss the French Lover. which has four speeds and two tantalizing pulsation patterns. It mimics the feel of a flicking tongue, and it's especially realistic with an extra drop of lube.
"Well this one surprised me," says a happy reviewer. "The touch is definitely different but it feels so good, especially if you add some lubricant. The high speed really gets you over the edge while the lower are great for building intensity. It's a slow burn, but...so explosive. If you like oral, this is pretty much better."
The Hype: 4.2 out of 5 stars and 77 reviews
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Smile Makers French Lover, $, available at Smile Makers
TLUDA Mouth Biting Tongue Vibrator Licking Rose Stimulator
Dive head first into pleasure town with this souped-up rose that not only sucks but also licks with a tongue vibrator extension that has Walmart shoppers' toes curling in delight. The magic lies in the toy's unique ability to suck and lick simultaneously, providing an oral sex toy experience reviewers can't get enough of.
"Feels so actually [real]!! Its suction's so powerful and the tongue feels so real! I'm inspired with this product! The material feels so realistic and tender. I advocate this product to everyone looking within the marketplace for such a toy. Don't pass it up!"
The Hype: 4.8 out of 5 stars and 65 reviews
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TLUDA Sucking Rose Stimulator Sex Toy Tongue Vibrator, $, available at Walmart
Tracy's Dog Juicy Clitoral Licking Vibrator
Tracy's Dog is known for making some of the best suction vibrators on the market, which is why were shocked to learn that customers are going crazy for this dual-stimulating sex toy that swaps the suction nozzle for a tongue vibrator extension to work your clitoris into a frenzy.
"So I got this toy to test. It is soft, a little bit flexible where it needs to be. At first, it took me a min to get it just right but [when] you get it right, be ready for one hell of a good ride. I had to change my sheets after I was done with it and came back to my senses. I can't [wait] to play with this toy with my husband. So it may take a min to get it just right but it is well worth it, so don't be like me and forget a towel and get ready to get wet."
The Hype: 4.9 out of 5 stars and 123 reviews
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Tracy's Dog Juicy Clitoral Licking Vibrator, $, available at tracy's dog
Fun Factory Volta Tongue Vibrator
Are two tongues really better than one? The answer is a resounding yes when it comes to this award-winning tongue vibrator from Fun Factory. Fans of Volta love that the two fluttering tongues work in tandem, so you can explore with broad or pinpoint sensations simultaneously for an overwhelmingly accurate oral sex feel. Pro tip: Use plenty of lube with this one. Two tongues mean twice the friction.
"This is definitely a new favorite of mine. So far I have only used it on myself but it's amazing for clitoral stimulation. It has a lot of power, which is great because I have lost some sensation due to a hysterectomy and I find most toys to be too weak to get me to orgasm. I love the fluttering tips type of toys and have another one that is similar, but the power doesn't even compare to this one. This one is amazing!"
The Hype: 4.9 out of 5 stars and 29 reviews
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Fun Factory Volta, $, available at Fun Factory
Womanizer Starlet USB Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator
Womanizer Starlet has long been at the top of our faves for oral sex simulation, not only because of its incredible suction capabilities but also because of its small, easy-to-maneuver body. We recommend using it simultaneously with your fingers, a dildo, or a penis for a blended orgasm that will blow your mind (and vagina) away.
"I'm a person who enjoys penetration as well as clitoral stimulation," says our sex writer in her own firsthand Womanizer Starlet review. "And I really enjoyed that because of the Starlet's small shape and size, I was able to use my fingers to manually stimulate myself internally while using it. It was this combo that really made me feel like I was getting some excellent oral sex, and it's one of the most realistic sensations I've had from a suction toy."
The Hype: 4.4 out of 5 stars and 1,094 reviews
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Womanizer Starlet, $, available at Womanizer
Lovehoney Whirl Power Rechargeable Silicone Rotating Rabbit Vibrator
Ever wanted a rabbit sex toy that used a tongue vibrator to tickle your clit instead of its usual famed bunny ears? If so, you're in luck. This rabbit vibrator has customers in a tizzy with its rotating clitoral tongue extender, which flicks back and forth while the internal shaft rubs up against your G-spot.
"I've bought my fair share of toys over the years, including splurging on a luxury brand, but this by far beats all the others! Was very *pleasantly* surprised with the feel of the 'tongues,' good variety of patterns of vibrations, and of the tongue wheel. It's really easy to use, and occasionally it even sounds like someone giving head, which is a great addition to the experience. No complaints whatsoever and think it's an absolute steal, especially considering it was bought in the sale."
The Hype: 4 out of 5 stars and 25 reviews
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Lovehoney Whirl Power Rechargeable Silicone Rotating Rabbit Vibra, $, available at Lovehoney
Bellesa Finger Pro
If you've ever fingered yourself and wished it felt like a tongue, you're in luck. Bellesa's Finger Pro slides onto your finger with ease and uses a flicking tongue vibrator extension to help get the job done. Reviewers are obsessed with this "o-mazing" toy.
"I’m sorry, but a wagging tongue? Paired with a whole range of incredible vibrations, it’s game over. It’s cute, it’s easy to operate, and it’s obnoxiously effective," raves one reviewer. Another says that she's told every friend, coworker, and family member to buy the small vibrator that changed her sex life. "I guess I'm an influencer now?" Consider us influenced.
The Hype: 4.5 out of 5 stars and 376 reviews
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Bellesa Finger Pro by Bellesa, $, available at BBoutique
Vesstt Sucking Licking Tongue Vibrator Toy
Attention Walmart shoppers, we have some very exciting news. After Ella Paradis discontinued the R29 fav Blowfish vibe, we weren't sure we'd ever find something that made our clit tick the same way again. Until now. This near-replica from Walmart is a dual-function dream — with one side for suction and another for licking. This is an oral sex toy that will have you quaking at the knees in no time — and it's currently on sale for $17.
"This option is quite lifelike on low, and then some," says one reviewer, who shares her journey to toe-curling orgasm. "Great fabrication, materials, even the color is great. Easy to clean. Easy to hold. A must-have, ladies. Whether you are flying solo or having fun with your partner, this will enhance your experience."
The Hype: 4.5 out of 5 and 142 reviews
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Vesstt Sucking Licking 2-In-1 Vibrator Toy, $, available at Walmart
Tracy's Dog Rosie Portable Rose Clit Sucker
If you're looking for one of the best viral sex toys out there, Rosie is an oral sex-mimicking powerhouse — emphasis on power. "This rose is magical," one reviewer exclaims. "She does things that many guys can't do."
Several other reviewers (including one of our writers!) swear by it for the most intense orgasms achieved from its seven different suction intensities and silky-soft silicone shell. "I would give it more stars if I could," another review reads. And considering it currently boasts a perfect 5-star rating, everyone seems to agree.
The Hype: 5 out of 5 stars and 84 reviews
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Tracy's Dog Rosie, Portable Rose Clit Sucker, $, available at tracy's dog
Lelo Ora 3
If you want a luxury vibrator that feels just like oral sex, you won't find one much better than Lelo's Ora 3. Simply place the vibrating portion of the toy over your clitoris or wherever else you like, and small, rotating beads inside the silicone will circle like a tongue, making precise and controlled licks. It's high-key one of the most real-feeling oral sex toys on the market. Pro tip: Add some lube for a slippery sensation that feels even more realistic. Even our sex writer (who's tried a LOT) said it feels like "a tongue that won't quit" in her Ora review.
"One of the things I really missed after my breakup was oral," says one reviewer. "I don’t enjoy lots of vibration, nor penetration, the best thing for me has always been oral pleasure. My expectations were really high so, to be honest, I didn’t think I would be 100% satisfied — I was so wrong... My orgasm was as pleasurable, maybe more so, because I wasn’t worried my partner was getting bored!"
The Hype: 4.4 out of 5 stars and 338 reviews
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LELO ORA™ 3, $, available at LELO
Sientice Clitoris Licking Tongue Vibrator
Enjoy seven modes of licking with this tongue vibrator that's got Walmart shoppers' attention. With a nearly perfect rating, the Sientice oral sex simulator exceeds expectations for a toy of its price.
Its list of attributes is seemingly endless, too. As one reviewer extols: "It's fantastic, it feels strong and good, it charges fast and the battery lasts long. It's waterproof, so it's perfect for use in the shower, and it has a tongue that feels... very real."
The Hype: 4.8 out of 5 stars and 258 reviews
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Sientice Clitoris Tongue Licking Vibrator, $, available at Walmart
Dame Aer Suction Vibrator
Dame's suction vibrator has become a fast cult favorite with R29 readers ever since one of our writers gave it an in-depth test run shortly after its debut.
Her review of the soft and easy-to-navigate toy boasted such memorable lines as, "Alas, the clit is not a Bop-It. Aer understands that," along with the revelation that it "edged me into climax for a few minutes without numbing, hurting, or overwhelming my clit" thanks to its "near-sentient" sensitivity. She also said it felt like "getting oral from a cloud," making us more than curious enough to try it out ourselves. It's also one of the best oral sex toys for accessibility: It's incredibly easy to hold.
The Hype: 4.5 out of 5 stars and 752 reviews
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Dame Aer, $, available at Dame
Satisfyer Power Flower
The delicate petals in this uniquely shaped vibe are able to stimulate everything from nipples to clitorises to penises, making it great for use on anyone of any gender. Though it is listed as a tongue vibrator, the petals give it more of a fluttering sensation that requires a bit of a learning curve to use.
One reviewer writes, "This was a bit different for me to get used to but once I figured it out....OMG! I have never been 'motivated' so fast! My new best friend!"
The Hype: 4.1 out of 5 stars and 129 reviews
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Satisfyer Flower Power Vibrator, $, available at Amazon
Womanizer Classic
This toy is a game-changer for anyone with a clitoris. While it may look like it "sucks" on your clit, the toy actually sends pulses of vibration through your vulva. And many people say it results in the strongest and/or fastest orgasm they've ever had, making it one of the best oral sex toys under $100.
"The suction is powerful and with lube and the right position," explains one reviewer. "It's an amazing starter suction vibrator, and I would recommend this to anyone who enjoys oral sex, as it is probably even better than the real thing."
The Hype: 4.2 out of 5 stars and 125 reviews
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Lovehoney x Womanizer Classic Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator, $, available at Lovehoney
Cal Exotics Red Hot Rechargeable Silicone Flickering Tongue Vibrator
This highly rated tongue vibrator allegedly gives some of the most toe-curling, world-rocking Os in existence.
"This small plaything is literally red hot as the name suggests," commented one reviewer. "It can take a bit of experimenting to find the right technique/pressure/direction but once you do, it guarantees a fabulous result every time!"
The Hype: 4.3 out of 5 stars and 97 reviews
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Lovehoney Red Hot Rechargeable Silicone Flickering Vibrator, $, available at Lovehoney
We-Vibe Melt
This sleek silicone clit stimulator is one of the best oral sex toys out there for versatility: it can be enjoyed solo or paired with an app for partner-controlled play.
"From soft, to pulse, to rumble, to superfine vibrations and suction — it's an all-in-one for me and mine," one reviewer gushes. No wonder people can't get enough.
The Hype: 4.6 out of 5 stars and 140 reviews
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We-Vibe We-Vibe Melt Clitoral Stimulator, $, available at Lovehoney
Cal Exotics Inspire Flickering Intimate Arouser Vibe
The oversized opening on this highly-rated vibe is meant to mimic the feeling of oral sex with its 10 different rhythms of flickering vibration.
"This thing is a powerhouse," explains one reviewer. "The first time I used it, I was just checking it out and planned to play later, but I literally came in just over one minute to my surprise. Definitely feels like the real thing and the 'cup' that touches the outer part of the vagina feels really good too and has good placement."
The Hype: 4.7 out of 5 stars and 65 reviews
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Cal Exotics Inspire Flickering Intimate Arouser Vibe, $, available at Pink Cherry
Better Love Mini Zip
How is it possible that this cute little clitoral stimulator is one of the best oral sex toys out there? With seven different speeds and a deceptively powerful suction sensation, reviewers swear the Zip helps them achieve orgasms in record time.
"I was told about this toy by a friend, who said a friend of hers had bought one and spoke highly of it," writes one reviewer. "After using it for the first time, it made me climax super fast and over and over. Cannot recommend this toy enough! It feels amazing on the clitoris."
The Hype: 4.85 out of 5 stars and 46 reviews
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Better Love Mini Zip Clitoral Stimulator, $, available at Walmart
Nü Sensuelle Trinitii 3-in-1 Rechargeable Vibrator
This slick toy combines vibration, suction, and licking movements to create an intense replication of all the sensations that come with oral sex (pun intended).
"This unit packs a triple punch! Vibration, suction, and licking functions. And trust me, the suction option isn't for the faint of heart,” writes one enamored reviewer. “You can use each function on its own and the vibration is powerful.”
The Hype: 4.4 out of 5 stars and 18 reviews
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Nu Sensuelle Trinitii 3-in-1 Rechargeable Vibrator, $, available at Amazon
Sqweel 2 Oral Sex Simulator
The Sqweel 2 has had an upward battle in sex toy opinions — just based on its look alone. We've never seen a tongue vibrator with this many tongues, so it makes sense it would be a bit divisive. Despite mixed reviews, the positive ones are insistent and refuse to be ignored.
"This toy lived up to my expectations and, although not quite the same as the real act, is most definitely the next best thing," says one reviewer. "Overall the toy is very good to use both alone or with a partner and will definitely leave you lying motionless after orgasm!" Many people claim that only someone who doesn't have a vulva could think these rotating "tongues" actually feel like oral sex, though.
But others say that they enjoy the sensation of Sqweel's silicone tongues "licking" them, even if it's not a perfect imitation of oral. With reviews as mixed as these, we'll leave it to you to decide, and for under $40, there's no harm in trying.
The Hype: 3.4 out of 5 stars and 388 reviews
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Lovehoney Sqweel 2 Oral Sex Simulator, $, available at Lovehoney
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