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== Steps ==
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== Steps ==
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=== Before the Kiss===
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=== Before the Kiss===
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#Make sure you have a fresh breath. Fresh breath is important for kissing because you want to give the boy as many excuses as possible to keep on kissing you. Try using lifesavers or mints and always brush your teeth before you meet up with him. Remember, bad breath isn't the end of the world but avoid it if you can.[[Image:Kiss a Boy for the First Time Step 1 Version 5.jpg|center]]
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#Make sure you have a fresh breath. Fresh breath is important for kissing because you want to give the boy as many excuses as possible to keep on kissing you. Try using lifesavers or mints and always brush your teeth before you meet up with him. Remember, bad breath isn't the end of the world but avoid it if you can.<ref>https://dailym.ai/2TWfeHj>[[Image:Kiss a Boy for the First Time Step 1 Version 5.jpg|center]]
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#*Try not to eat strong, spicy, or garlicky food before you see him. Again, if you can't avoid it, it's not a huge deal but it's better to avoid it altogether.
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#*Try not to eat strong, spicy, or garlicky food before you see him. Again, if you can't avoid it, it's not a huge deal but it's better to avoid it altogether.
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#Make sure you're looking good. You can't always plan when and where you'll kiss a boy, but you can try to be prepared. If you're dressed pretty and in a way you feel comfortable, you'll have a spring in your step. That means you will be more confident. More confidence means that there's a bigger chance the boy comes back to kiss you again.[[Image:Kiss a Boy for the First Time Step 2 Version 5.jpg|center]]
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#Make sure you're looking good. You can't always plan when and where you'll kiss a boy, but you can try to be prepared. If you're dressed pretty and in a way you feel comfortable, you'll have a spring in your step. That means you will be more confident. More confidence means that there's a bigger chance the boy comes back to kiss you again.<ref>http://bit.ly/2BG3mSt>[[Image:Kiss a Boy for the First Time Step 2 Version 5.jpg|center]]
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#*Don't necessarily wear lip-gloss, and don't wear heavy lipstick. Lip-gloss and lipstick, especially, will rub off on your partner, making him look sparkly or sloppy, depending on the situation. Stick with lip balm instead.
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#*Don't necessarily wear lip-gloss, and don't wear heavy lipstick. Lip-gloss and lipstick, especially, will rub off on your partner, making him look sparkly or sloppy, depending on the situation. Stick with lip balm instead.
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#*Don't wear a bunch of accessories like hats, or wear your hair so that it gets in the way. Boys like natural beauty anyway. You may want to try kissing the boy when you have your hair up, so that he focuses only on you and the kiss, not the hair tickling his face.
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#*Don't wear a bunch of accessories like hats, or wear your hair so that it gets in the way. Boys like natural beauty anyway. You may want to try kissing the boy when you have your hair up, so that he focuses only on you and the kiss, not the hair tickling his face.
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#Find a nice place to kiss. Public places are generally not so good for the first kiss, as you can get people staring at you or even heckling you. Try to find a place that's public, but still intimate, for you to share your first kiss.[[Image:Kiss a Boy for the First Time Step 3 Version 4.jpg|center]]
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#Find a nice place to kiss. Public places are generally not so good for the first kiss, as you can get people staring at you or even heckling you. Try to find a place that's public, but still intimate, for you to share your first kiss.<ref>http://bit.ly/2TP6JNV>[[Image:Kiss a Boy for the First Time Step 3 Version 4.jpg|center]]
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#Try doing something to break the touch jitters away by [[Flirt Physically|flirting physically]]. This will not only make him understand that you like him, but will also give him some time to adjust to you, so that you're not going from 0 to 100 in a second.[[Image:Kiss a Boy for the First Time Step 4 Version 5.jpg|center]]
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#Try doing something to break the touch jitters away by [[Flirt Physically|flirting physically]]. This will not only make him understand that you like him, but will also give him some time to adjust to you, so that you're not going from 0 to 100 in a second.<ref>http://bit.ly/2BAMHj2>[[Image:Kiss a Boy for the First Time Step 4 Version 5.jpg|center]]
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#* Hold his hand or put your arms over his shoulders. Start moving your body so that he's much closer to you; it'll be awkward if you have to move a long way to kiss him.
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#* Hold his hand or put your arms over his shoulders. Start moving your body so that he's much closer to you; it'll be awkward if you have to move a long way to kiss him.
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#* Touch his hair or face to make him know that you are interested. Gently touch his nose with your pointer finger and smile at him.
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#* Touch his hair or face to make him know that you are interested. Gently touch his nose with your pointer finger and smile at him.
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=== During the Kiss===
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=== During the Kiss===
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#Move your lips towards him slowly, closing your eyes at the last second. You need to be able to see so that you can aim for his lips, but you don't want to keep your eyes open while you kiss, so close them right before your lips lock.[[Image:Kiss a Boy for the First Time Step 6 Version 5.jpg|center]]
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#Move your lips towards him slowly, closing your eyes at the last second. You need to be able to see so that you can aim for his lips, but you don't want to keep your eyes open while you kiss, so close them right before your lips lock.<ref>http://bit.ly/2TWfkPb>[[Image:Kiss a Boy for the First Time Step 6 Version 5.jpg|center]]
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#*Keep your eyes closed during the whole kiss. When the kiss ends, you can open your eyes and you gently pull away.
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#*Keep your eyes closed during the whole kiss. When the kiss ends, you can open your eyes and you gently pull away.
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#*Move into the kiss at an angle. That means if his face is straight up and down, you probably want yours tilted a bit to the left or right — whichever is more comfortable. This helps keep you from bumping noses together when you kiss.
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#*Move into the kiss at an angle. That means if his face is straight up and down, you probably want yours tilted a bit to the left or right — whichever is more comfortable. This helps keep you from bumping noses together when you kiss.
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#Use mostly your lower lip for kissing. Don't pucker up your lips like you've just had a bunch of Sour Patch Kids, or like you're kissing grandma. Keeps your lips loose and try to relax.[[Image:Kiss a Boy for the First Time Step 7 Version 4.jpg|center]]
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#Use mostly your lower lip for kissing. Don't pucker up your lips like you've just had a bunch of Sour Patch Kids, or like you're kissing grandma. Keeps your lips loose and try to relax.<ref>http://bit.ly/2TWfkPb>[[Image:Kiss a Boy for the First Time Step 7 Version 4.jpg|center]]
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#*Give him one long kiss. You don't have to do anything fancy to get his attention the first time.
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#*Give him one long kiss. You don't have to do anything fancy to get his attention the first time.
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#*Your big goal is to get him to come back for seconds. Give him just enough so that he's interested, not so much that he's bored. Try to keep the first kiss to under 20 seconds if you can.
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#*Your big goal is to get him to come back for seconds. Give him just enough so that he's interested, not so much that he's bored. Try to keep the first kiss to under 20 seconds if you can.
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=== After the Kiss===
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=== After the Kiss===
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#As you move away from the kiss, open your eyes. Now would be the time to take a look at the boy you've just shared a kiss with. If you did a good job, he'll be flushed, heavy-eyed, and smiling.[[Image:Kiss a Boy for the First Time Step 10 Version 4.jpg|center]]
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#As you move away from the kiss, open your eyes. Now would be the time to take a look at the boy you've just shared a kiss with. If you did a good job, he'll be flushed, heavy-eyed, and smiling.<ref>http://bit.ly/2BCQmwZ>[[Image:Kiss a Boy for the First Time Step 10 Version 4.jpg|center]]
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#*Smile back at him. He may be nervous about how he kissed, so you'll probably want to convince him that he did a good job. You can do this by smiling.
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#*Smile back at him. He may be nervous about how he kissed, so you'll probably want to convince him that he did a good job. You can do this by smiling.
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#*If you arms are still around him, leave them there for a few seconds before taking them away. It might feel weird if you suddenly take your hands away as soon as the kiss is done.
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#*If you arms are still around him, leave them there for a few seconds before taking them away. It might feel weird if you suddenly take your hands away as soon as the kiss is done.
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*Always be sure that you don't let the guy that you are sharing your first kiss get the wrong idea about what you want him to do towards you. Touching him in the wrong places may let him think that you want more than what you have bargained for.
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*Always be sure that you don't let the guy that you are sharing your first kiss get the wrong idea about what you want him to do towards you. Touching him in the wrong places may let him think that you want more than what you have bargained for.
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*Make sure your partner is ready, don't just jump in all of a sudden. You will both have to look at each other's actions before you kiss him.
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*Make sure your partner is ready, don't just jump in all of a sudden. You will both have to look at each other's actions before you kiss him.
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*Don't chew gum; it builds saliva. Saliva is an anti-bacterial, so in moderation, it is good. But no one wants to feel like they're kissing a dog.
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*Don't chew gum; it builds saliva. Saliva is an anti-bacterial, so in moderation, it is good. But no one wants to feel like they're kissing a dog.<ref>http://bit.ly/2TRDCcO>
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*If you have braces, make sure there are no sharp bits, otherwise your partner might cut their lips or tongue!
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*If you have braces, make sure there are no sharp bits, otherwise your partner might cut their lips or tongue!
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*Remember that if you feel uncomfortable at any time you have the right to pull away. Don't do anything that you don't want to do!
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*Remember that if you feel uncomfortable at any time you have the right to pull away. Don't do anything that you don't want to do!
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