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*Controlling and manipulative people are often produced by external factors that you have no control over. You cannot hope to change or rescue such a person, as much as you may care for them; the best help you can give them is to refuse to be a victim.
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*Controlling and manipulative people are often produced by external factors that you have no control over. You cannot hope to change or rescue such a person, as much as you may care for them; the best help you can give them is to refuse to be a victim.
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*Don't delete text messages or voice mails from your ex, but don't respond to them, either. Should your ex begin stalking you or otherwise become a threat, these text messages can provide valuable evidence to the police if you want to get a restraining order. Consider buying a digital recorder, and saving voice messages to a CD, a jump drive, or whatever, that you keep in a safe place for if and when the time is necessary.
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*Don't delete text messages or voice mails from your ex, but don't respond to them, either. Should your ex begin stalking you or otherwise become a threat, these text messages can provide valuable evidence to the police if you want to get a restraining order. Consider buying a digital recorder, and saving voice messages to a CD, a jump drive, or whatever, that you keep in a safe place for if and when the time is necessary.
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* if this person tries hugging you and gets sensitive... tell them that you still love them and hug them back but say that you need space for a while.
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== Warnings ==
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== Warnings ==
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