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==Steps==
 
==Steps==
 
===Using Body Language===
 
===Using Body Language===
#[[Make Eye Contact|Make eye contact]] so you appear confident. Eye contact shows people that you’re confident, even if you don’t always feel that way. When you see people, look them in the eye to acknowledge their presence. Similarly, make sustained eye contact while you’re talking to someone.<ref>https://stylecaster.com/how-to-be-sexy/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 1 Version 4.jpg|center]]
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#Make eye contact so you appear confident. Eye contact shows people that you’re confident, even if you don’t always feel that way. When you see people, look them in the eye to acknowledge their presence. Similarly, make sustained eye contact while you’re talking to someone.<ref>https://stylecaster.com/how-to-be-sexy/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 1 Version 4.jpg|center]]
 
#*Eye contact is typically brief, so you might meet someone's eyes and then look away. If you focus on their eyes for too long, it can turn into staring.  
 
#*Eye contact is typically brief, so you might meet someone's eyes and then look away. If you focus on their eyes for too long, it can turn into staring.  
 
#*If making eye contact is hard for you, practice so it becomes easier. Start by making eye contact with yourself in a mirror, then do it with a person you care about. Over time, you’ll get better at making eye contact.
 
#*If making eye contact is hard for you, practice so it becomes easier. Start by making eye contact with yourself in a mirror, then do it with a person you care about. Over time, you’ll get better at making eye contact.
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#*For instance, you might wear a jacket or cardigan with 3/4-length sleeves so your wrists are exposed.  
 
#*For instance, you might wear a jacket or cardigan with 3/4-length sleeves so your wrists are exposed.  
 
#*If you put perfume on your wrists, the scent will stand out because your wrists are pulse points. However, the smell will mask your natural pheromones.  
 
#*If you put perfume on your wrists, the scent will stand out because your wrists are pulse points. However, the smell will mask your natural pheromones.  
#[[Smile|Smile]] to draw people to you. When you smile, it brightens your face and makes you appear friendly and approachable. Additionally, you can use different types of smiles to make yourself more alluring. For instance, a sly or lopsided smile can make you look mysterious, a one-sided smile can appear flirty, an open-mouth smile radiates joy, and a lip-biting smile can be suggestive.<ref>https://stylecaster.com/how-to-be-sexy/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 5 Version 3.jpg|center]]
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#Smile to draw people to you. When you smile, it brightens your face and makes you appear friendly and approachable. Additionally, you can use different types of smiles to make yourself more alluring. For instance, a sly or lopsided smile can make you look mysterious, a one-sided smile can appear flirty, an open-mouth smile radiates joy, and a lip-biting smile can be suggestive.<ref>https://stylecaster.com/how-to-be-sexy/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 5 Version 3.jpg|center]]
 
#*Practice smiling in the mirror to help you get better at it. Then, you can flash your smile at the people you encounter.  
 
#*Practice smiling in the mirror to help you get better at it. Then, you can flash your smile at the people you encounter.  
 
#Wink at people to be a little flirty. Giving people a quick wink draws attention to you and makes you seem bold and confident. Also, it's an easy way to seem flirty without actually having to talk to people. Wink at people occasionally to make yourself seem sexy and intriguing.<ref>https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a7068/signs-hes-flirting-with-you/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 6 Version 2.jpg|center]]
 
#Wink at people to be a little flirty. Giving people a quick wink draws attention to you and makes you seem bold and confident. Also, it's an easy way to seem flirty without actually having to talk to people. Wink at people occasionally to make yourself seem sexy and intriguing.<ref>https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a7068/signs-hes-flirting-with-you/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 6 Version 2.jpg|center]]
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===Styling Yourself===
 
===Styling Yourself===
#[[Maintain Good Hygiene|Maintain good hygiene]] by bathing daily. People will find you more appealing if you’re clean and smell nice. Keep yourself clean and well-groomed by showering or bathing every day. Use soap and personal care products like deodorant to keep yourself smelling great.<ref>https://stylecaster.com/how-to-be-sexy/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 7 Version 2.jpg|center]]
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#Maintain good hygiene by bathing daily. People will find you more appealing if you’re clean and smell nice. Keep yourself clean and well-groomed by showering or bathing every day. Use soap and personal care products like deodorant to keep yourself smelling great.<ref>https://stylecaster.com/how-to-be-sexy/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 7 Version 2.jpg|center]]
 
#*Wash and condition your hair at least 2-4 times a week. If your hair gets really dirty, use dry shampoo between washes.  
 
#*Wash and condition your hair at least 2-4 times a week. If your hair gets really dirty, use dry shampoo between washes.  
#Care for your skin and nails. Apply [[Apply Moisturizer|moisturizer]] to your face every morning and night to nourish your skin and use body lotion or cream daily to keep your body soft and supple. Additionally, [[Do a Manicure at Home|trim and file]] your fingernails and toenails weekly or biweekly to keep them in good shape.<ref>https://stylecaster.com/how-to-be-sexy/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 8 Version 3.jpg|center]]
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#Care for your skin and nails. Apply moisturizer to your face every morning and night to nourish your skin and use body lotion or cream daily to keep your body soft and supple. Additionally, trim and file your fingernails and toenails weekly or biweekly to keep them in good shape.<ref>https://stylecaster.com/how-to-be-sexy/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 8 Version 3.jpg|center]]
 
#*It’s up to you if you want to shave your face or body hair. You might shave your legs and underarms, or you might choose to let them grow. Similarly, you might decide to shave or trim your beard, or you may decide to let your facial hair grow. You’re sexiest when you’re being true to yourself!
 
#*It’s up to you if you want to shave your face or body hair. You might shave your legs and underarms, or you might choose to let them grow. Similarly, you might decide to shave or trim your beard, or you may decide to let your facial hair grow. You’re sexiest when you’re being true to yourself!
 
#*Nail polish can be really sexy, but it isn’t necessary. Wear it if you like it or skip it if you don’t.  
 
#*Nail polish can be really sexy, but it isn’t necessary. Wear it if you like it or skip it if you don’t.  
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#*Any hairstyle can be sexy, so don’t feel like you have to pick a particular hairstyle. For instance, a shaved head can be a very sexy look for any gender if you wear it with confidence.  
 
#*Any hairstyle can be sexy, so don’t feel like you have to pick a particular hairstyle. For instance, a shaved head can be a very sexy look for any gender if you wear it with confidence.  
 
#[[Dress Well|Build a wardrobe]] that makes you feel fabulous. You don’t need the most expensive clothes to look amazing. Try on everything in your closet and get rid of anything that doesn’t make you feel amazing. Make sure every item you keep boosts your confidence. When you buy new clothes, only purchase items that make you feel attractive.<ref>https://stylecaster.com/how-to-be-sexy/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 11 Version 2.jpg|center]]
 
#[[Dress Well|Build a wardrobe]] that makes you feel fabulous. You don’t need the most expensive clothes to look amazing. Try on everything in your closet and get rid of anything that doesn’t make you feel amazing. Make sure every item you keep boosts your confidence. When you buy new clothes, only purchase items that make you feel attractive.<ref>https://stylecaster.com/how-to-be-sexy/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 11 Version 2.jpg|center]]
#*Don’t worry about what’s “sexy.” Looking sexy depends on how much confidence you have, and wearing clothes that make you feel fabulous will help you convey confidence.
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#*Don’t worry about what’s “sexy.” Looking sexy depends on how much confidence you have, and wearing clothes that make you feel fabulous will help you convey confidence.
 
#Choose a signature scent if you wear perfume. You don’t have to wear perfume to be sexy, but spritzing yourself with your favorite scent can create an impression in people’s memories. This makes you memorable, which will help you appear sexier. Pick a scent that appeals to you and fits with your personality. Then, wear it every day so that people associate it with you.<ref>https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-social-thinker/201008/seeing-red-does-wearing-red-make-you-sexy</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 12 Version 2.jpg|center]]
 
#Choose a signature scent if you wear perfume. You don’t have to wear perfume to be sexy, but spritzing yourself with your favorite scent can create an impression in people’s memories. This makes you memorable, which will help you appear sexier. Pick a scent that appeals to you and fits with your personality. Then, wear it every day so that people associate it with you.<ref>https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-social-thinker/201008/seeing-red-does-wearing-red-make-you-sexy</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 12 Version 2.jpg|center]]
 
#*Put your perfume on your neck or wrists, which are your pulse points.  
 
#*Put your perfume on your neck or wrists, which are your pulse points.  
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#*At the start of every year, make a list of new things you want to try. Then, try to check off 1 or 2 every month.
 
#*At the start of every year, make a list of new things you want to try. Then, try to check off 1 or 2 every month.
 
#*When someone suggests a new thing, be the first to volunteer to try it.  
 
#*When someone suggests a new thing, be the first to volunteer to try it.  
#[[Be Kind|Be kind]] because it draws people to you. While it’s simple, being nice to people goes a long way. It makes people see you as an appealing person, which can translate to sexiness. Always treat people well and offer compliments when you have something nice to say.<ref>https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/201805/whats-more-important-being-sexy-or-being-beautiful</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 16 Version 2.jpg|center]]
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#Be kind because it draws people to you. While it’s simple, being nice to people goes a long way. It makes people see you as an appealing person, which can translate to sexiness. Always treat people well and offer compliments when you have something nice to say.<ref>https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/201805/whats-more-important-being-sexy-or-being-beautiful</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 16 Version 2.jpg|center]]
 
#*Try to give at least 1 compliment a day. You might say, “That color looks great on you,” or “Your presentation was stellar.”
 
#*Try to give at least 1 compliment a day. You might say, “That color looks great on you,” or “Your presentation was stellar.”
 
#Show off your smarts. While you might think sexiness is about looks, being knowledgeable and intelligent are both viewed as sexy. Develop your mind by constantly learning new things. Then, show off that knowledge by talking about topics that interest you and sharing your skills with others.<ref>https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/201805/whats-more-important-being-sexy-or-being-beautiful</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 17 Version 3.jpg|center]]
 
#Show off your smarts. While you might think sexiness is about looks, being knowledgeable and intelligent are both viewed as sexy. Develop your mind by constantly learning new things. Then, show off that knowledge by talking about topics that interest you and sharing your skills with others.<ref>https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/201805/whats-more-important-being-sexy-or-being-beautiful</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 17 Version 3.jpg|center]]
 
#*You can learn more by reading, keeping up with the news, watching documentaries, and taking classes for fun.
 
#*You can learn more by reading, keeping up with the news, watching documentaries, and taking classes for fun.
 
#*When you have a lot of knowledge, carrying on a conversation is easier because you have a lot to say.  
 
#*When you have a lot of knowledge, carrying on a conversation is easier because you have a lot to say.  
#Develop your [[Develop a Sense of Humor|sense of humor]]. Being able to share and understand humor makes you more appealing to others. To improve your sense of humor, watch comedies and Stand-Up to get a feel for how jokes work. Then, practice telling funny jokes and stories to your closest friends or relatives.<ref>https://stylecaster.com/how-to-be-sexy/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 18 Version 3.jpg|center]]
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#Develop your sense of humor. Being able to share and understand humor makes you more appealing to others. To improve your sense of humor, watch comedies and Stand-Up to get a feel for how jokes work. Then, practice telling funny jokes and stories to your closest friends or relatives.<ref>https://stylecaster.com/how-to-be-sexy/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 18 Version 3.jpg|center]]
 
#*When people make jokes, laugh along to show them you have a great sense of humor.
 
#*When people make jokes, laugh along to show them you have a great sense of humor.
 
#[[Be Positive|Adopt a positive attitude]] so you give off good vibes. Being positive will make you more appealing to other people. To help yourself be more positive, keep a gratitude journal so you can recognize the good things in your life. Additionally, use positive affirmations like “Today is a good day” and “I’m doing awesome” to keep yourself upbeat.<ref>https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/201805/whats-more-important-being-sexy-or-being-beautiful</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 19 Version 2.jpg|center]]
 
#[[Be Positive|Adopt a positive attitude]] so you give off good vibes. Being positive will make you more appealing to other people. To help yourself be more positive, keep a gratitude journal so you can recognize the good things in your life. Additionally, use positive affirmations like “Today is a good day” and “I’m doing awesome” to keep yourself upbeat.<ref>https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/201805/whats-more-important-being-sexy-or-being-beautiful</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 19 Version 2.jpg|center]]
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#Unfollow social media accounts that make you feel crummy. Since being sexy is all about confidence, it's best to avoid things that threaten your self-esteem. Social media accounts that feature perfect bodies and unattainable standards may make you feel bad about yourself. To prevent this, click unfollow on accounts that bring your down. Instead, follow pages that lift you up and inspire you.<ref>https://stylecaster.com/how-to-be-sexy/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 21 Version 2.jpg|center]]
 
#Unfollow social media accounts that make you feel crummy. Since being sexy is all about confidence, it's best to avoid things that threaten your self-esteem. Social media accounts that feature perfect bodies and unattainable standards may make you feel bad about yourself. To prevent this, click unfollow on accounts that bring your down. Instead, follow pages that lift you up and inspire you.<ref>https://stylecaster.com/how-to-be-sexy/</ref>[[Image:Be Sexy Step 21 Version 2.jpg|center]]
 
#*It’s okay to want to change things about yourself that you don’t like. That’s how you grow as a person. However, your inspiration for change should be positive, not rooted in self-doubt.
 
#*It’s okay to want to change things about yourself that you don’t like. That’s how you grow as a person. However, your inspiration for change should be positive, not rooted in self-doubt.
 
 
   
 
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