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#Spend more time on your favorite social activities. Much as we'd all like to meet someone without having to leave the house, your potential partners won't cooperate with that plan. Many a lesbian couple first met on a women's sports team or [[Volunteer at an Animal Shelter|volunteering at an animal shelter]], but you don't need to limit yourself to these stereotypes. Throw yourself into a social activity or hobby you love, and your enthusiasm will attract people who share your interests.[[Image:Meet-Other-Lesbians-Step-3-Version-3.jpg|center]]
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#Spend more time on your favorite social activities. Much as we'd all like to meet someone without having to leave the house, your potential partners won't cooperate with that plan. Many a lesbian couple first met on a women's sports team or [[Volunteer at an Animal Shelter|volunteering at an animal shelter]], but you don't need to limit yourself to these stereotypes. Throw yourself into a social activity or hobby you love, and your enthusiasm will attract people who share your interests.[[Image:Meet-Other-Lesbians-Step-3-Version-3.jpg|center]]
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#*Concerts are another great meeting spot. Look for bands with LGBT musicians or a significant lesbian fan base.
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#*Concerts are another great meeting spot. Look for bands with LGBT musicians or a significant lesbian fan base.
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#Visit a lesbian bar. These aren't too common anymore, so jump on the chance if there's still one in your town. Failing that, gay bars are worth a try. Most of them are heavily weighted toward men, but you might find some with a regular lesbian night.[[Image:Be-the-Most-Irresistible-Woman-at-a-Party-Step-10-Version-2.jpg|center]]
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#Visit a lesbian bar. These aren't too common anymore, so jump on the chance if there's still one in your town. Failing that, gay bars are worth a try. Most of them are heavily weighted toward men, but you might find some with a regular lesbian night. Obviously however, this isn't a good method for people under the age of 21. [[Image:Be-the-Most-Irresistible-Woman-at-a-Party-Step-10-Version-2.jpg|center]]
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#*Don't send the wrong signal by bringing your straight male friend to a gay or lesbian bar.<ref>https://ift.tt/37xXQiV>
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#*Don't send the wrong signal by bringing your straight male friend to a gay or lesbian bar.<ref>https://ift.tt/37xXQiV>
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#Date online. Websites and dating apps are extremely popular ways to meet. Here are some of the more popular options:[[Image:Meet-Other-Lesbians-Step-6-Version-3.jpg|center]]
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#Date online. Websites and dating apps are extremely popular ways to meet. Here are some of the more popular options:[[Image:Meet-Other-Lesbians-Step-6-Version-3.jpg|center]]
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#[[Be-More-Confident|Build confidence]]. It's normal to be shy when you approach someone you find attractive. Do your best to stay positive and friendly no matter what happens, and you'll gain confidence with practice. An easygoing attitude makes you more attractive, and makes you feel better as well.[[Image:Tell-a-Guy-Who-Has-a-Girlfriend-That-You-Like-Him-Step-9.jpg|center]]
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#[[Be-More-Confident|Build confidence]]. It's normal to be shy when you approach someone you find attractive. Do your best to stay positive and friendly no matter what happens, and you'll gain confidence with practice. An easygoing attitude makes you more attractive, and makes you feel better as well.[[Image:Tell-a-Guy-Who-Has-a-Girlfriend-That-You-Like-Him-Step-9.jpg|center]]
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#*A supportive female wingman can help if you need the encouragement. Just don't act too friendly, or the girl across the room might think you're a couple.
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#*A supportive female wingman can help if you need the encouragement. Just don't act too friendly, or the girl across the room might think you're a couple.
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#*The "is she straight?" guessing game adds an extra challenge to lesbian dating. Making your moves in LGBT spaces can reduce your anxiety, especially when you're new to the experience.
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#*The "is she straight?" guessing game adds an extra challenge to lesbian dating. You shouldn't make assumptions about whether they are straight or not, as it won't actually affect their sexuality. Instead of assuming things, just ask her! Making your moves in LGBT spaces can reduce your anxiety, especially when you're new to the experience.
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#Make eye contact and smile. If you don't have a ready-made icebreaker, such as a mutual friend to introduce you, this should be your first step. If she holds eye contact for a couple seconds, smiles back, or repeatedly glances in your direction, take it as an invitation to approach.[[Image:Understand-Gay-Teens-Step-7.jpg|center]]
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#Make eye contact and smile. If you don't have a ready-made icebreaker, such as a mutual friend to introduce you, this should be your first step. If she holds eye contact for a couple seconds, smiles back, or repeatedly glances in your direction, take it as an invitation to approach.[[Image:Understand-Gay-Teens-Step-7.jpg|center]]
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#[[Flirt]]. You don't need a pick-up line — just start a light-hearted conversation by asking her where she's from or what she's doing at the event. Flirting can be as simple as these three steps:[[Image:Tell-Your-Lesbian-Friend-That-You-Are-Straight-and-Not-Interested-in-Her-Step-2-Version-2.jpg|center]]
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#[[Flirt]]. You don't need a pick-up line — just start a light-hearted conversation by asking her where she's from or what she's doing at the event. Flirting can be as simple as these three steps:[[Image:Tell-Your-Lesbian-Friend-That-You-Are-Straight-and-Not-Interested-in-Her-Step-2-Version-2.jpg|center]]
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